Every bride is faced with a million choices and let’s face it, she really doesn’t know what to do with all of them. She wants a beautiful wedding and so assumes that she wants all the bells and whistles. In reality however she couldn’t afford the bells and whistles and probably doesn’t even need them. Starting your happily-ever-after with a stack of bills can add an incredible strain to your relationship.
On average, couples that live in Maricopa, AZ (County) spend between $19,175 and $31,959 on their wedding. You should expect to pay, on average, 50% to 100%+ more when choosing well-experienced professionals, designer labels, popular event locations, unique or custom products and services. The amount you pay may also be affected by the number of guests you invite.
The average wedding cost is based on number of guests estimated between 120 and 140. A single guest could add between $177 and $216 to the overall cost of your wedding. The best way to save money on your wedding is to control the number of guests. You should expect to pay, on average, 50% to 100%+ more when choosing well-experienced professionals, designer labels, popular event locations, unique or custom products and services. Investigate all options and choose products and services that best meet your needs.
• Dress accessories includes; Tiara, Combs, Hair Pins, Garter, Shoes, Jewelry (not the engagement ring or wedding bands), etc.
• Tuxedo/suit/other accessories includes; Cuff links, Cummerbund, Tie, Pocket Square, Shoes, Jewelry (not the engagement ring or wedding bands), etc.
• Ceremony accessories includes; Aisle Runner, Ring Pillow or Box, Unity Candle, etc. not flowers or decorations
• Wedding Officiant includes; Justice of the Peace, Officiant, Ordained Friend or Family, Pastor, Minister, Priest, etc.
• Other transportation includes; Shuttles, Antique Car, Horse & Carriage, etc.
• Reception accessories includes; Toasting Flutes, Cake Topper, Serving Set, etc. not flowers or decorations
• Reception rentals includes; Lighting, Tent, Tables, Chairs, Photo Booth, etc.
Cities Included in the above: Aguila AZ – Arlington AZ – Avondale AZ – Buckeye AZ – Carefree AZ – Cashion AZ – Cave Creek AZ – Chandler AZ – Chandler Heights AZ – El Mirage AZ – Fort McDowell AZ – Fountain Hills AZ – Gila Bend AZ – Gilbert AZ – Glendale AZ – Glendale Luke AFB AZ – Goodyear AZ – Higley AZ – Laveen AZ – Litchfield Park AZ – Mesa AZ – Morristown AZ – New River AZ – Palo Verde AZ – Paradise Valley AZ – Peoria AZ – Phoenix AZ – Queen Creek AZ – Rio Verde AZ – Scottsdale AZ – Sun City AZ – Sun City West AZ – Surprise AZ – Tempe AZ – Tolleson AZ – Tonopah AZ – Tortilla Flat AZ – Waddell AZ – Wickenburg AZ – Wittmann AZ – Youngtown AZ. (Source: http://www.costofwedding.com)
A Wedding Costs a House Down Payment
These are the numbers. According to CostOfWedding.com, which is produced by a market-research company collecting information for the wedding industry, the average wedding in the U.S. costs about $25,631, possibly more depending on where you live. That is a down payment on a very nice house here – or the whole house, in large swaths of the country – and an amount many claim they just can’t manage to save up.
So ask yourself: You want to take that amount and blow it on a one-day party, or you want to use it to create an investment that’ll end up paying your kids’ tuition if you play it right? And if your answer is the former, holy crap. Are you bipolar?
The website goes on to list all the expenses you should take into account when planning a wedding. Things like gifts for the parents, wedding favors, a “traditional leather bound album” for the photos, flower-girl petals. According to the Association of Wedding Professionals, the wedding industry nets about $86 billion per year. That’s billion with a “B.”
That is a lot of people counting on you getting starry-eyed about your wedding. Just like Las Vegas counts on chumps who think they’re going to beat the craps table, and the tobacco industry counts on weak-willed copycats who feel rebellious when they emulate Courtney Love.
This idea that you deserve a wedding is not the point; of course you deserve a wonderful day. But what you deserve even more is financial security and a debt-free future. So plan a wedding based in reality, and who you are and what kind of wife you want to be: supportive, smart and with two feet firmly in reality.
You’re not a princess, princess. He’s not a prince. You’re both smart cookies. Choose your wedding vendors wisely.
Your wedding budget and spending styles should be discussed before you tie the knot, and communication about money should be maintained throughout your marriage. Remember, pretending money issues don’t exist doesn’t actually make them disappear.
Larry’s NOTE: A special “Thank you” to Amy Keyishian for her contribution to this article. She has been a staff writer for Cosmopolitan Magazine, a freelance writer for Glamour, Self, Maxim and other magazines, and now blogs for Learnvest as well as Recipe.com, Kveller and the Huffington Post. She lives with her family in San Francisco.
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