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Sunday, July 20, 2014

Music at the Reception!

Filed under: Reception Music,Receptions,Wedding Tips — Larry James @ 7:30 am
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“Did you like our DJ?”

“He was fine. But he didn’t play the songs we asked for, but it was still fun.”

SongRequestsOh, oh!

Obviously, the bride and groom will create a playlist of their favorites and a don’t playlist (the inappropriate lyrics, the songs you hate, hard to dance to, outdated, overplayed, or carry the wrong message, etc.) to keep the “chicken dance” and others from being annoying the guests. The last thing you want to hear is a song you hate. Create a “do not play” list for your band or DJ and you’ll never have to regret your reception music later.

Top 10 ‘Do Not Play’ Wedding Songs

1. The Macarena – along with all those other cheesy organized dance songs (Electric Slide, Chicken Dance, YMCA, Hokey Pokey, etc.).
2. Celebration
3. White Wedding
4. Lips of an Angel by Hinder – and other cheating, breakup, or death-related songs, including Jesse’s Girl, Tears in Heaven, and I Will Survive.
5. The Humpty Dance
6. Love Shack
7. Brick House
8. Who Let the Dogs Out
9. Hot, Hot, Hot
10. Tainted Love – or any ‘bad’ love song.

It’s one thing to have your DJ announce that he will play requests, but yet another to make it easy for your guests to have him play their favorite dance tune that will encourage them to get up and kick up their heels.

rsvpSongRequestSome couples are including a line on the invitation RSVP for guests to write-in a special request to be played at the reception. Asking guests for song requests on your reply card is a fun and interactive way to pre-plan a perfect playlist. Send your guests a small question along with their invite asking them their favorite song. It’ll get them excited to attend your wedding and contribute to your big day. When the guests hear their song they’ll get excited when their requested song comes on and get up and dance.

It can get a little hectic when guests are running up requesting different songs during the reception. Give this RSVP list of songs to your DJ, along with the name of the person who requested each song. That way, if the dance floor starts to thin out, the DJ can play songs off of the request list and call out their name. This pretty much guarantees that the person who requested the song will get up and dance and encourage others to do so as well.

Top 10 Best Wedding Songs For Reception

1. All of Me – Jon Legend
2. Just the Way You Are – Bruno Mars
3. XO – Beyonce
4. Treasure – Bruno Mars
5. Let’s Get Married – Jagged Edge
6. Who You Love – Katy Perry and John Mayer
7. Marry Me – Jason Derulo
8. Borrow My Heart – Taylor Henderson
9. How Long Will I Love You– Ellie Goulding
10. Somebody Loves You – Betty Who

Keep in mind that the music will have a big influence on the mood of your reception, as well as your guests’ memories of your special day.

BONUS Article: Reasons to NOT allow the guests to make requests!


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