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Thursday, April 4, 2013

Prepping Your Flower Girl for Her Walk Down the Aisle

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Sofia Angeli, Guest Author

Before the bride walks down the aisle, there’s another lady who usually steals the show. No, it’s not the mother of the bride. Who else but the flower girl? Yes, this little charmer almost always catches the attention of the guests. Perhaps, it’s the innocence and the element of surprise that she brings to such a formal and momentous event that makes her worth the wait.

FlowerGirlBut for some little girls, this task of walking down the aisle is just too overwhelming. Some just break down in the middle of everything. Some don’t even make it to the starting line.

Your little angel might be doing the walk for the first time. Or she might be doing it once more after a not-so-successful appearance the last time. So how do you deal with your own little flower girl? Here are some suggestions on how to make it more pleasant for her and for you.

Practicing

Even if the bride has called for a wedding rehearsal, you should brief and practice with your little flower girl how she should walk down the aisle. Explain to her what the procession is all about. Tell her what will happen. Especially for toddlers, sometimes they just get shocked about everything new around them.

Tell her that there will be music. If you can get hold of the music the entourage will be marching to, let her hear it and practice walking to that tune.

Describe to her what things will look like – that there will be people around and that there will be others marching, too. Of course, it will be much easier if she’s familiar with the place of the ceremony.

If possible, let her meet other members of the entourage so she’ll be friends with them. She’ll look forward to seeing them again on the wedding day.

flowergirldressHer Dress

When she fits her dress, ask her to walk around to make sure she doesn’t trip. Ask her, too, if the dress, particularly if it has layers of tulle, doesn’t feel too heavy.

If she’ll be carrying a basket of petals to be scattered as she walks down the aisle, make sure the basket is light enough for her to carry around. As much as possible, let her carry the basket, too, while wearing the dress before the wedding day.

On the day of the event, don’t make her wear the dress too early. She might get too tired of wearing it or damage it from playing, eating or drinking while waiting for the ceremony to begin.

Walking Down the Aisle

Bring a couple of her favourite toys or books to keep her occupied and calm before the ceremony begins. Don’t forget to have in your bag a few biscuits that she likes, in case she gets hungry and the ceremony gets delayed.

Ask members of your family whom she’s fond of sit near the aisle as she walks. Seeing familiar faces will calm her nerves and also make her flash her cute smile that will be great for the cameras.

Lastly, keep in mind that things may not go as you planned – or practiced. Make sure you’re dressed and made up for appearing on the aisle, too. In case she stops and refuses to go the whole length of the procession, calmly go to her, hold her hand and walk happy and proud with your little girl.

Copyright © 2013 – Sofia Angeli. Sofia Angeli is a PR & communications consultant for companies in various industries. In particular, she brings her writing skills and passion for travel, culture, arts and lifestyle, including wedding planning and engagement rings, to the online world.

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Thursday, February 7, 2013

Keep Your Guests Guessing… Who Are the Flower Girls?

Traditional: The flower girl (usually 3 to 10 years old) walks down the aisle, throwing petals as she goes.

Alternative: How about having you and your fiancé’s grandmothers be the flower girls?

GrandmotherFlowerGirlsI Love this idea!

Most immediate family members have traditional roles to play on the wedding day. Perhaps it’s time we honor the grandmothers. As one of the oldest female relatives, the grandmothers can play an important and special role on her grandchild’s wedding day, whether she is the grandmother of the bride or groom. It a good idea to have corsages and boutonnieres made for the grandmothers and grandfathers to wear.

I’ve found that some couples do not have the choice of having children to be flower girls. Either they have decided not to have children be a part of their wedding or none of their family or friends have young children. This allows the grandmothers to be a part of the ceremony and certainly solves the problem.

When the grandmother’s are finished tossing the rose pedals, they simply take their seats next to their spouses, if any, who would usually be already seated on the first or second row.

For the bride, a grandmother is a wonderful person to ask for “something old” or “something borrowed” to use on her wedding day.

Larry’s Note: A special “Thank you!” to Brenda Owen @ http://WeddingWoman.net for this great idea. Be sure to check out Brenda’s Facebook page at: www.facebook.com/BrendaOwenOfficiant.

BONUS Articles: An Age Guide to the Little Ones in Your Wedding
Here Comes the Flower Girl!
Here Comes the Flower Girl… Again!
The History of the Flower Girl

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Friday, August 31, 2012

The History of the Flower Girl

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The flower girl brings beauty, innocence, and wishes for healthy children to the wedding ceremony and she melts our hearts with each step she takes. She walks down the aisle in front of the bride, dropping flower petals, which symbolize fertility. The petals are usually red rose petals. Originally, the petals may have also been used to ward off evil spirits, so the flower girl walking in front of the bride would protect her on her wedding day.

flowergirl2She is the cutest thing you’ve ever seen in her little white dress with a pink sash and matching flower basket, but the flower girl’s history is based on more than just heart-melting “aws” from your guests.

The “flower” girl first made her appearance in weddings in Ancient Rome when she would carry wreaths of herbs and wheat down the aisle which symbolized prosperity and fertility for the bride and groom. During the Medieval period, a young girl carried garlic down the aisle which was said to ward off evil spirits – talk about pre-wedding jitters!

During one of her many centurial makeovers, the flower girl that is now classic to the modern wedding world evolved through the Victorian beauty and sentiment nurtured through Queen Victoria herself. Their dresses were white with a colored ribbon sash and they carried baskets of flower petals to sprinkle down the aisle before the bride made her grand entrance.

Fast forward a few hundred years: In modern times, brides often select flower girl attire that mirrors their own beautiful wedding gown. The flower girl is often dressed as a “mini-bride” to symbolize the transition of the bride from little girl into womanhood. Some brides choose to put their flower girls in colored frocks. She is a whimsical reminder to all on-lookers of how magical and brief is innocence and childhood.

kissingballInstead of dropping flower petals, many flower girls blow bubbles going down the aisle. Others throw confetti or carry teddy bears. Items such as herbs, grains, and garlic have been scattered by the little ones over the years. These items have been used as a calling for fertility as well as keeping evil spirits at bay. They will often wear halos or carry a kissing ball – often called a pomander.

Kissing balls are an alternative to baskets of flowers or scattering rose petals. They are balls that are made out of real, silk or paper flowers. Many churches will not allow fresh rose petals to be dropped, since they can damage carpet. They can also be dangerous if there is a bare floor; the possibility exists for a person to slip and fall.

Although the meaning behind having a flower girl has changed drastically over the centuries, I think we can all agree: thank goodness she no longer carries garlic!

BONUS Articles: An Age Guide to the Little Ones in Your Wedding
Here Comes the Flower Girl!

Copyright © 2012 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s “romantic” Wedding Website. Larry James is an award winning, non-denominational wedding officiant and performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere! Every wedding ceremony is customized to your complete satisfaction. Call to check availability: 480-998-9411 or Cell: 480-205-3694. Pre-maritial relationship coaching is available and not required. You will find more than 470 pages of Wedding ideas, tips (90 tips and growing), ceremonies, and more at: http://www.celebrateintimateweddings.com. Something NEW about weddings is posted every 4th day on this Wedding BLOG. Check Larry’s availability.

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Monday, March 12, 2012

Here Comes the Flower Girl… Again!

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Marie Morris, Guest Author

The innocence of the little girl leading the bridal party down the aisle while holding her basket, looking like an Angel in her gown as she walks gracefully down the aisle, fresh faced captures an unforgettable moment of time and sets the tone for the arrival of the beautiful blushing bride.

flowergirlShe is the flower girl. In most instances, being asked to be the flower girl marks the debut of her first formal occasion. Once you have selected your little girl for that special day, you may need to speak to her parents about the time and financial commitment. The flower girl will need to attend the rehearsals and other wedding-related activities and her parents will probably need to accompany her.

Many brides today are finding it fun to dress up their favorite little girl as a miniature bride and send her down the aisle to stir up anticipation for the real bride. The flower girl’s dress is usually linked to the rest of the bridal party, by the color of the sash or by the color of the flowers on the dress.

When choosing a dress some brides choose a dress that is similar in style to the bridesmaids dress or can be a miniature version or similar to the bride’s dress but tailored to fit the little flower girl. Fabrics such as silks and satins work beautifully depending on the formality of the wedding party.

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Too young to walk down the aisle? Have someone escort her in a wagon!

“Choosing an outfit for the flower girl which is comfortable while still staying within the overall style of the wedding party can be a little tricky”, say’s Marie Morris of Goo Goo Gear. The Fabric shouldn’t scratch or irritate the skin. Some kids have skin allergies and can only wear natural fibers such as cotton or silk.

“Whenever choosing a dress be practical and keep in mind the dress length so she doesn’t trip and it is age-appropriate,” say’s Marie. It’s probably a good idea to measure the little girl (chest, waist and shoulders to angle/floor length measurements) “and always allow for growth,” suggests Marie. It’s probably best to leave the flower girl’s dress until last about 4-6 weeks prior to your wedding date.

Most flower girls carry a small basket with either flowers or petals to sprinkle while walking down the aisle. It’s probably a good idea to have your flower girl walk up and down the aisle several times by herself at the rehearsal so that she feels comfortable having all eyes admiring her once the big day arrives. She will be ready to make that long walk down the aisle. Dazzling with the charm that only a little girl has, your flower girl will lead the rest of your wedding party and bring smiles and joy to many of your guest’s faces.

BONUS Articles: An Age Guide to the Little Ones in Your Wedding
Here Comes the Flower Girl!

Copyright © 2012 – Marie Morris. Marie Morris is the Managing Director of Goo Goo Gear. Visit her Website at: www.googoogear.com.au.

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Tuesday, November 1, 2011

An Age Guide to the Little Ones in Your Wedding

Filed under: Child Attendants,Children or No Children?,Flower Girl,Ring Bearer — Larry James @ 7:00 am

How will the little ones fit into your wedding and your wedding party?

Kids are fun as members of the bridal party. They often provide a few laughs due to their unpredictability. They are often the high-point of the wedding.

kidwithBIGhatI have listed some of the roles that can be given to children in your wedding, including approximate age guidelines to help make things go smoother. The age, maturity and personality of the child should be considered when making your choices.

Ages three and under are sometimes pulled in a wagon or pushed in a stroller, then seated with family; dressed in tiny, adorable formal wear. Keep in mind that often small children (under the age of five) become distracted easily and notoriously have small attention spans during the ceremony. They often become bored and restless. Be sure to let the parents know that if that happens it is okay with you to have them seated after they walk up the aisle.

Preteens and teens (11 to 15 years old) could be assigned to watch after the registration book, accepting gifts from guests to gift table, be ushers, passing out bubbles or birdseed, wedding programs, distribute wedding favors to the guests at the reception, etc.

Ushers is a category designed to create a special place in your wedding party for kids who are too old to be flower girls or ring bearers (4-8 years old), but too young to participate in all of the rituals of the adult honor attendants.

Junior bridesmaid or junior groomsman, usually ages 11-15, stands with the wedding party at the end of the row, dressed in child version of wedding party attire and often the same wedding attire.

Flower girls are generally between four and eight years old. Sometimes, “mature” two and three year olds pull it off quite charmingly, possibly with parents or other children they know escorting them down the aisle. If the girl is a bit older, you might consider making her a junior bridesmaid – junior bridesmaids wear dresses similar (or often the same) in color and style as the bridesmaids, they walk down the aisle in the procession, and they stand at the altar with the other attendants. A young girl over the age of eight could walk down the aisle as a junior bridesmaid instead of a flower girl. The flower girl tosses petals on the aisle before the bride walks down it. You can have as many flower girls as you would like.

flowergirl:ringbearerAppropriate ages for ring bearers range anywhere from four to eight years old. Anything younger can pose problems due to unpredictable behavior – it may be difficult to coax them down the aisle, and they may not be able to stand through the duration of the ceremony. Some think that children over the age of eight may be too old to serve as ring bearers. It may be more appropriate for a boy older than eight to serve as a junior groomsman or an usher. You may have two ring bearers if desired.

Ring bearers often carry a white pillow with faux rings attached to it. Sometimes, depending upon the age of the child, it may be wise to have the best man actually carry the real rings. To those who may want the best man and the maid of honor to each carry a ring I would remind you that the maid of honor usually carries a bouquet and at some point during the ceremony may also hold the bride’s bouquet and she doesn’t have pockets. So… I vote for the best man to carry both rings.

A gift attendant (ages 12 and up) is responsible for the gift table. He or she watches the table during the reception to insure that gifts remain on the table. After the reception, he or she helps to load the car with gifts. This is a simple role that is great for the responsible child.

The guest book attendant’s (ages 14 and up) job is to get people to sign the guest book. He or she should be in a location where this is feasible, and should ask each person that enters to sign the guest book. This is not a role for a shy child, but should be reserved for someone who is friendly and reasonably outgoing. Instruct this attendant to ask each guest to “please sign the guestbook” or “will you sign the guestbook” for best results.

kidwatchcakecuttingA Junior Attendant (ages 8 to 14) is the perfect title for a young girl in the groom’s wedding party or a young boy in the bride’s wedding party. See junior bridesmaid and junior groomsman usher for role description.

A Junior Bridesmaid (ages 8 to 14) is reserved for girls who are too old to be a flower girl and too young to be a bridesmaid. In most cases, her only duty is to come to the rehearsal and to walk down the aisle. Some couples do include junior bridesmaids in other festivities such as showers.

Junior Ushers (ages 8 to 14) is reserved for boys who are too old to be a ring bearer and too young to be a groomsman/usher. As a junior groomsman, his duties include going to the rehearsal and walking down the aisle. As a junior usher, he helps to seat wedding guests.

The personal attendant (ages 14 and up) is expected to help with the preparations before the ceremony and/or reception. The role varies, but this person (boy or girl) is a “wedding helper” and helps the bride or groom where needed. He or she can also be called a Bride’s Attendant or Groom’s Attendant.

Consider hiring on-site sitters during the reception. Provide toys, coloring books and crayons, etc. The children’s parents will be grateful.

Provide kid food for the children. Hamburgers, french fries and pizza will suit their palates much better than filet mignon and will be far less expensive. Most caterers can arrange a special menu of food more suited to children.

Although it is not necessary to have children to fit into each of the above categories, these are some positions that others have filled. Generally speaking, the two most often filled positions are for the flower girl and the ring bearer.

BONUS Article: Children at the Reception?
No Rugrats (Children) Allowed!

Copyright © 2011 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s “romantic” Wedding Website. Larry James is an award winning, non-denominational wedding officiant and performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere! Every wedding ceremony is customized to your complete satisfaction. Call to check availability: 480-998-9411 or 800-725-9223. Pre-maritial relationship coaching is available and not required. You will find more than 470 pages of Wedding ideas, tips (90 tips and growing), ceremonies, and more at: http://www.celebrateintimateweddings.com. Something NEW about weddings is posted every 4th day on this Wedding BLOG. Check Larry’s availability.

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Sunday, July 24, 2011

Here Comes the Flower Girl!

Filed under: Flower Girl,Wedding Attendants,Wedding Tips — Larry James @ 7:00 am

Traditionally, flower girls have been a part of weddings going back as far as the Victorian days. The role was created so that the flower girl could make the guests smile and relax because of her innocent and sweet demeanor.

flowergirlMost flower girls carry a small basket with either flowers or petals to sprinkle while walking down the aisle. The purpose of scattering rose petals along the aisle before the bride takes her walk to the altar is to create a pathway that stands for the beauty of the bride. She helps to put everyone at ease and to bring laughter and humor to what otherwise was sometimes a very formal event. The flower girl often steals the show during a wedding ceremony.

Flower girls are usually between 3 and 9 years old. It is important to remember that flower girls are really just children acting like adults so leniency and contingency plans are the two key words to ensuring the day runs smoothly. Being asked to be the flower girl, often marks the debut of her first formal occasion.

babyflowergirlWhile most of the bridal party is expected to stand at the bride’s side during the ceremony, it’s rather unreasonable to expect a young child to do so, especially if it’s a long ceremony.

Small children in weddings are unpredictable – often with memorable results. Kids will be kids and there is a possibility things will go wrong on the day. There is only so much you can control. Whatever the flower girl does (cries, drops the basket, lifts up her dress, throws the petals on the guests…), her personality and preciousness will give the guests a reason to smile.

Ensure that the children you choose for these roles are confident in performing in front of a large crowd. Rehearsals often aid in ironing out some nerves but cannot be relied on as a foolproof plan.

Seat the flower girl’s parents either on the front row or the second row of the ceremony so she can focus on them and be encouraged by their smiles of reassurance. If she is very young, she may go back to her seat with her parents after she walks; poised and more mature little ladies may stand with the other bridesmaids.

At one of my recent weddings the bride was concerned that the flower girl was so young (a shade over 2 years) that she may not want to walk down the aisle when she saw all the people. I suggested that they decorate a wagon filled with flower petals and have a junior groomsmen (about 12 years old) pull her down the aisle with a “here comes the bride sign” on the back of the wagon. The little girl didn’t throw any petals but she was a big hit with the guests.

smallflowergirlAnother time we had the father of the flower girl carry her down the aisle and help her throw the flower petals.

Some weddings have one flower girl, while others have more than one. Never underestimate the power of the buddy system, especially if the kids know each other. The idea of having two flower girls or pairing up the ring bearer and flower girl so that they can walk side-by-side works very well. Partnering will give them added confidence.

Here are a few ideas and duties to consider for the flower girl:

• Make sure she has a nap before the ceremony or a good nights sleep before the wedding.
• Walk before the bride and throw petals
• Walk down the aisle with the ring bearer
• Hold a basket of rose petals for other guests to throw at the newlyweds as they depart
• Follow bridesmaids up the aisle and depart with the bridesmaids (although she is not required to walk back up the aisle in the recessional)
• Be sure to speak to her parents about the time and financial commitment.
• Attend the ceremony rehearsal, showers, etc.
• Be present for all wedding photos – Take some photos before the ceremony if possible so she won’t be as tired.
• Depending upon her age – stand up with the bridesmaids during the length of the ceremony
• No candy sugar before the ceremony. Some children get hyper and hard to control when they are loaded up on sweets.
• Make sure the dress is comfortable and the length is a reasonable length so she doesn’t trip.
• Remember to show your appreciation to your flower girl by giving her a small gift to commemorate the event.
• Include a coloring book to keep her occupied during the reception.

One Little Flower GirlShe will love “One Little Flower Girl” and it will keep her busy during the reception.

About the book: Come along on this rhyming story as our little flower girl discovers how special her part is in the big day and how much fun a wedding can be. Sweet, delicate art by Janie Bynum takes the reader from dressing to dancing, and everything in between. With a gate fold that reveals at the big “I do” moment, this padded book celebrates an important day, and the little girl at the center of the party. The reusable pouch full of cloth petals allows her to practice for her big part.

BONUS Articles: An Age Guide to the Little Ones in Your Wedding
Here Comes the Flower Girl… Again!
The History of the Flower Girl

Copyright © 2011 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s “romantic” Wedding Ceremony. Larry James is an award winning, non-denominational wedding officiant and performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere! Every wedding ceremony is customized to your complete satisfaction. Call to check availability: 480-998-9411 or 800-725-9223. Pre-maritial relationship coaching is available and not required. You will find more than 460 pages of Wedding ideas, tips (90 tips and growing), ceremonies, and more at: http://www.celebrateintimateweddings.com. Something NEW about weddings is posted every 4th day on this Wedding BLOG. Check Larry’s availability.

Subscribe to Larry’s FREE monthly “LoveNotes for Lovers” eZINE. Contact: CelebrateIntimateWeddings.com, P.O. Box 12695, Scottsdale, AZ 85267-2695. – CelebrateIntimateWeddings.com

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