Alexis “Ally” Asbe, Guest Author
Brides… Take a breath! Relax!
Remember: You are the example to everyone on your wedding day, and it’s a responsibility to take seriously.
Even when things are getting out of control, you can stop yourself from lashing out and being a brat.
Stop and really think about how other people feel and what it would feel like to walk a mile in their shoes.
They want to be treated the way you want to be treated.
All the Golden Rule clichés that you’ve heard a million times, there’s a lot of truth to them, even if you’ve learned them from greeting cards.
Now, before you start shouting at everyone, think instead about how you can set the tone. Show others how they should behave and the will follow your example.
Trust me. No one wants to upset a bride, when others see the bride is the picture of grace, they’ll want to follow your lead.
You don’t have to be Martha Stewart to inspire, but you do want to find that composure that she has when she’s creating something beautiful.
(But avoid the jail time, okay?)
Larry’s Book Review: “At the Alter in Your Underwear” is a fun book to read. You’ll find some of the best and most practical advice I’ve ever read about weddings. Get a good chuckle from Chapter 8! Ally Asbe’s words will assist brides in having less stress and fewer anxieties about the big day. Best read with a yellow highlighter!”
Copyright 2014 Alexis Asbe. Adapted from the book, “At the Altar in Your Underwear.” Alexis “Ally” Asbe has designed and consulted for over 3000 weddings and events. She is the bestselling author of “At the Altar in Your Underwear: 40 secrets to an amazing wedding and a better you!” She is currently a consultant, writer and speaker devoted to styling your heart, your life and soon to be your best friend… Get in your underwear with her at AllyAsbe.com.
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