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Sunday, March 31, 2013

The Blending of the Sands Ceremony

The “Blending of the Sands” ceremony (often called the Unity Sand Ceremony) can be a beautiful and meaningful alternative to the “Unity Candle” ceremony. Like a Unity candle the pouring of two different colored sands together is used to symbolize the joining of the bride and groom or the joining of their families.

tamarablendThe “Blending of the Sands” concept was originally created by Geneene L. Thornton in 1993 and was used primarily for beach weddings in the San Diego area. The problem with the Unity Candle, especially on the beach, is the least puff of wind and the candles usually blow out.

Like a Unity candle, the symbolism for the Blending of the Sands is similar. This ceremony is usually added toward the end of the wedding ceremony.

This ceremony requires three small vials or vases, one for you and your fiancé to pour the sand into and two for each of you to pour the sand from. Each of the two vials of colored sand symbolizes the separate lives of the bride and groom and their families. The two outside vials or vases can be used later to display fresh flowers following the wedding. Some couples pour the sand from two sea shells. You can put your vase containing your combined sand on display as a constant reminder of your special day!

If your wedding ceremony is being performed on a beach, have the minister scoop up a little sand from the beach with a sea shell and pour it into the small bottle to symbolize the building of the foundation of the relationship and to give you a momento directly from the beach. (Larry’s Note: Yes, I know… you don’t build a foundation on sand! Let’s not get picky, picky! 😉 )

ForeverFrameUse two different colored sands which you can find at most arts and crafts stores and Bridal Shops. Small glass bottles or vials are usually found there as well. A nice touch is to pour the colored sands into a small “heart-shaped” bottle. Later, you can melt some wax to seal it to hold the sand in place, then seal it with a cork or lid. Have your names and your wedding date etched in the glass bottle prior to the ceremony.

After the Wedding Officiant or Minister reads the text for the ceremony, the bride and groom pour the two containers of sand into the third container simultaneously. You may wish to leave a small amount of sand in each vial to symbolize that although you are now joined as one, you are still free to express your own individuality.

This is also a great way to include children or step-children (blended families) into the ceremony. Obtain several extra vials with a different color of sand for each child. See the Blending the Sands Ceremony #2 – for Bride, Groom and Children or we can customize this ceremony to include portions of the Blended Family Ceremony.

The combined sand makes a wonderful wedding keepsake for the bride and groom and a constant reminder of their promises on their wedding day.

BONUS Article: The Blending of the Sands with a “New” Twist! – The Forever Frame!

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