Handfasting is an ancient commitment ceremony. The term Handfasting is taken from Old Norse “hand-festa” meaning “to strike a bargain by joining hands.” It is the predecessor to the modern wedding ceremony. The ritual itself usually includes a loose binding together of the hands of the couple with a ritual cord of some kind, hence the name, which means “hand fastening.” It is also the origin of the slang phrase “to tie the knot.”
Handfasting is a symbolic ceremony to honor a couple’s desire for commitment to each other; to acknowledge that their lives and their fates are now bound together. it is the word used by the ancient Celts to describe their traditional trial-marriage ceremony, during which couples were literally bound together.
In some cases, it may be simply ceremonial – a couple declaring their love for one another without the benefit of a state license or it can be part of a “Commitment” ceremony. For other couples, it can be tied in with a state marriage license issued usually at the local court house.
Many years ago a handfasting was not intended to be a legally binding ceremony and “traditionally” either member of the couple may choose to end the partnership at any time. The handfasting was a temporary agreement, that expired after a year and a day. However, it could be made permanent after that time, if both spouses agreed.
Originally this handfasting ceremony was part of a Wiccan or Pagan ceremony. Handfasting was also practiced by the Greeks and Romans. In centuries gone by, handfasting was also a popular custom in the British Isles. The actual term “handfasting” comes from the tradition of the bride and groom crossing arms and joining hands – basically, creating the infinity symbol (a figure-eight) with the hands. Dormant for so long, the idea of the handfasting ceremony has enjoyed a recent huge rise in popularity.
Today, some couples are choosing to add the handfasting ceremony toward the end of their legal wedding ceremony.
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