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Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Cloned “look alike” Bridesmaids

Brides, don’t insist on making your bridesmaids look like clones. No more “cookie cutter” outfits.

The practice started with weddings in ancient Rome, which required the presence of 10 witnesses, who dressed like the bride and groom in order to ward off evil spirits. If the spirits couldn’t figure out who the bride and groom were, they couldn’t inflict evil on them. Very clever, ancient Romans. ;-)

WEDBridemaidsDressesEvery good friend knows that along with the honor of being a bridesmaid comes the obligation to wear a dress in a color and style that’s not of her choosing. So your girls accept that, but it doesn’t mean they’ll submit happily if you force them to wear identical shoes, jewelry, wraps, and hairstyles.

In order to have a great time at your wedding, your bridesmaids need to feel attractive too – something that’s impossible if you’ve micromanaged their looks down to the lipstick hue. Plus, buying a bunch of matching accessories they may never wear again gets expensive. Not to worry… YOU will still be the main attraction! Why not select a dresses they can actually wear again without altering?

Your bridesmaids will look even better if you give them leeway to let their individual styles shine through the blush-colored chiffon gowns you’ve dressed them in. Even if the dresses are all completely different, you can still have a preview to determine who should stand next to who in order to create balance. Their look should compliment their body type. Same color, different styles and lengths is another idea. Let them choose their hair and makeup styles; give them more than one option with accessories like shoes, jewelry, and cover-ups.

It’s a near-impossible feat to find ONE dress (or even one color) that three or four or 10 girls (who are different colors and shapes and size) are ALL going to feel great in. So why not make it easier on everyone and let them all wear WHATEVER, and trust that your friends have good taste? Your “Bridal Brigade” should have the freedom to choose within your guidelines. Of course you have the final say; you are, after all, “the bride.”

Should your bridesmaids wear the same dress? No, just similar enough to be a little of the same but individual enough to compliment each girl.

Perhaps it is finally time to ditch tradition of the matchy-matchy bridesmaid dresses! What say you?

BONUS Articles: Five Different Looks For Your Bridesmaids
8 Ways to Guarantee Happy Bridesmaids

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Saturday, February 21, 2015

FUN Photo Ideas for Your Wedding Day

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Friday, February 13, 2015

Top 10 Common Dieting Mistakes Every Bride-to-be Makes

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Rachel Morgan, Guest Author

Mistake 1 – Skipping breakfast ~ By skipping this important meal, you will be hungrier for the rest of the day. A decent breakfast will kick start your metabolism right from the word go!

Mistake 2 – Not eating enough protein ~ Protein will fill you up for longer, try chicken or fish for your lunch time meal and keep hunger at bay all day.

WedDietingMistakesMistake 3 – Getting your portion size wrong ~ Try eating off a smaller plate and filling it instead of filling a large plate. Eat slowly and enjoy every mouthful. That way, you will feel more satisfied.

Mistake 4 – Losing track of what you’ve eaten ~ Absent-mindedly snacking throughout the day can put a full stop to your slimming. Record everything, keep a food diary. Have snacks, just remember to include them in your calorie allowance.

Mistake 5 – Not drinking enough ~ Drink plenty of water throughout the day. Green tea will help fill you up and will help to speed up your metabolism.

Mistake 6 – Setting unrealistic goals ~ Dieting mistakes don’t come much bigger than being unrealistic about the amount of weight you’re going to lose. Don’t buy a wedding dress three sizes too small in the hope that you will fit into it. Set an achievable weight goal and try your best to get to that.

Mistake 7 – Repeating old diet habits ~ Break the routine of old dieting habits that haven’t worked. Don’t start on a Monday, start on a Friday. You’re much more likely to succeed as you will have done the hardest part first and stayed strong throughout the weekend – weekdays will be much easier.

Mistake 8 – Starving yourself ~ Don’t starve yourself because you’ll end up binge eating. Try to eat a handful of fruit when you get hungry – it’ll keep you going and stop cravings.

Mistake 9 – Hiding the scales ~ Don’t be scared of the scales. Get weighed regularly so you can see little loses, which will motivate you to continue.

Mistake 10 – Going it alone ~ Don’t try to lose weight on your own. More people are successful when they get the support of friends and loved ones. Ask a bridesmaid, your mum or your h2b to train and exercise with you and you’ll find the whole process a lot easier.

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Monday, February 9, 2015

7 Simple Slimming Tips for Your Wedding!

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Rachel Morgan, Guest Author

1. Take a before photo of yourself upon starting your challenge and stick this on your fridge. Every time you open the fridge take a look and remember why you put that there. Just think about that perfect dress and the day and that will help keep you motivated.

WEDSlimmingTIPS2. Try porridge for breakfast or lunch. Not only can you get some great tasting flavours, this will keep you fuller for longer. All of the foods used in the plan can be purchased from your local supermarket – no expensive health foods here!

3. Eat slowly and try to enjoy every mouthful. When you concentrate on the food you’re eating, the flavour and enjoyment will be so much more intense, you will find yourself more full and satisfied.

4. Invest in some digital scales to see small weight losses, which will help keep you in the slimming zone. Also, try to diet with a friend to help keep you motivated. It will also help to fill in the personalised daily diary that comes with the plan. This way you can track what you’re eating on every day of the 12 weeks.

5. If you fancy the occasional glass of wine, go for a dry white, which has fewer calories. Mix it with diet lemonade to make it last longer. The diet plan also includes lots of other top tips and motivational advice, so check it out!

6. Want a quick low-calorie meal? Try a Prawn or Chicken Stir fry. Replace the noodles for extra vegetables. Proteins like chicken and prawns will help keep you full up through-out the day. The Wedding Dress Diet Plan includes a handy 7-day meal planner so you can pre-plan all the protein for the week and quick and easy recipes even the busiest bride-to-be can try.

7. Try Lindt “dark” chocolate for an intense chocolate hit at only 40 calories approx per square. One square is enough for a sweet tooth and it will stop you reaching for the whole bar.

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BONUS Articles: Top 10 Common Dieting Mistakes Every Bride-to-be Makes

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Thursday, February 5, 2015

The Seven Year Itch Explained

Filed under: Wedding Tips — Larry James @ 7:30 am

The seven year itch is the psychological theory that happiness in couples starts to deteriorate after seven years together, increasing the chances of a break-up. It is the point when you have been together so long that you are tired and/or bored with your partner, but you have not been together long enough to have accepted the rhythm that is being in a relationship. Some people miss being single and would like a different partner. Other people just miss the freedom of being single and having no strings attached but they do not want another partner. It is a “rough” patch in a relationship and supposedly comes in the seventh year of marriage.

WED7YearItchThis phase is a very trying time, which could either make or break a relationship. I, for one, realize that relationship issues do occur, however I believe that the seven year itch is a myth made popular in 1955 when Marilyn Monroe starred in a movie of the same name. Psychologists and therapists say the concept of the seven-year itch, popularly thought to be a stage in the seventh year of marriage characterized by unsettled feelings and the urge to have an affair or leave the marriage, is part truth, part myth. When you really love each other there are many things you can do to move forward together. When all amateur moves have failed, it may be advisable for you to visit a relationship coach.

Vivian Diller, on The Seven Year Itch: Clearly, there are many factors that contribute to a couple’s growing dissatisfaction during the early phase of a relationship. To reduce it to the loss of attractiveness is obviously too simplistic. These first seven years are often filled with starting families, building careers and firming the marital foundation.

Young couples have a lot on their minds. But they cannot dismiss the role that feeling attracted to one another plays in the success of their long term relationship. The key is incorporating this awareness into everything else that we know about how couples succeed, or don’t, in today’s culture.

BONUS Article: Maintaining Attraction in Long-Term Relationships
The Itch is a Myth
Seven-Year Itch Isn’t About Years but the Relationship
Seven Strategies To Help Avoid The 7-Year Itch!
6 Tips To Deal With The 7-Year Itch

Copyright © 2015 – Vivian Diller. Vivian Diller, Ph.D. is a psychologist in private practice in New York City. She serves as a media expert on various psychological topics and as a consultant to companies promoting health, beauty and cosmetic products. Her book, Face It: What Women Really Feel As Their Looks Change (2011), edited by Michele Willens, is a psychological guide to help women deal with the emotions brought on by their changing appearances.

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Sunday, February 1, 2015

Should Married Couples Merge Finances or Keep Them Separate?

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“Though separate finances have worked for our marriage for nearly 20 years, most people prefer to merge their money when they marry. Some couples keep a single joint account where they put all their money. Others have a seldom-used joint savings account for certain needs but otherwise maintain complete financial autonomy. Most couples fall somewhere in the middle. There’s no one right way to do this; each relationship is different, so the correct choice is the one that works best for you and your partner.

MERGEFinances• If you and your partner make roughly the same amount, you could contribute equally to the joint account, and then keep what’s left over in your personal accounts.
• If one partner makes significantly more than the other, she could fund the joint account entirely on her own and keep the remainder in her personal account. Her husband could simply keep his own income in his personal account to do with as he wishes.
• Some couples use a proportional system: If one partner earns two-thirds of the household income, say, he contributes two-thirds of the joint account. After funding the joint account, the partners can do whatever they want with the leftovers.
• A final option is to use the “adult allowance” system. In this case, both spouses put their entire paycheck into the joint account, and then withdraw a fixed amount into their personal accounts every month.” ~ J.D. Roth

Would love to hear what has worked and what hasn’t worked in the comments section below.

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BONUS Articles: How to Make Money Talks Less Awkward
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Copyright © 2015 – J.D. Roth. J.D. Roth is an accidental personal-finance expert, e.g., a regular guy who found himself deep in debt. After deciding to turn his life around, he read everything he could about money and finance. In 2006, he started the award-winning blog Get Rich Slowly, which Money named the Web’s most inspiring personal-finance blog. Get Rich Slowly has grown into an active community in which thousands of readers every month share ideas on how to improve their financial lives. Roth is the author of Your Money: The Missing Manual and writes for AwesomePeople.com. He lives with his wife and three cats in a hundred-year-old house in Portland, OR.

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Wednesday, January 28, 2015

8 Ways to Guarantee Happy Bridesmaids

Leah Messenger, Guest Author

You may be the star of the show but your bridesmaids need to be happy too! Here are 8 easy ways to keep your best girls sweet throughout the wedding planning process, right up to the big day itself…

WEDBridesmaidsHappyGive them options ~ Present your bridesmaids with options. That way you are effectively giving them their own choice on what color of dresses to go for or what hairstyle to do, but keeping in the restrictions of what YOU want most. If you want them the same, giving them options to discuss means you aren’t the bad guy, and the disagreeable bridesmaid is. Or if you want mismatched bridesmaids, even better! They can form their own look.

Consider their budgets ~ Consider your bridesmaids’ financial situations before you start making them buy their own dresses or planning a hen weekend abroad. They will feel honored that you’ve asked them to be part of your special day, but it shouldn’t cost them an arm and a leg.

Make introductions ~ Set a date night for proper introductions between your bridesmaids. They’re your favorite girls and you want them to get along, so don’t just leave it to the hen night and the actual day. Sort out nights in and nights out so the whole bridal party can bond.

No favoritism ~ Don’t have favorites, or make people compete to be your favorite. No one wants tension or jealousy between the bridesmaids . And if you’re having a chief bridesmaid of maid of honor, make this clear who it is from the start. Then, at the very least, the other bridesmaids have a port of call aside from you if they have any problems.

Think how they feel ~ You can’t forget to think about how they feel. Yes it is your day and you have envisioned it a certain way, but make sure you think about what they might not be saying out loud. Maybe they’re not comfortable in their dresses? Maybe they feel you’re giving them too many tasks? Think about your maids and always ask if they’re okay.

Plan ahead ~ Expecting them to drop everything because you call an emergency DIY craft evening, or have a wedding-related panic isn’t very fair. Organize things like this and let your maids know in good time – if they can make it, great, if they’re already busy, don’t be a bridezilla about it!

Provide alternatives ~ Things like high heels will make you and your bridesmaids look great on the day, but may prove painful by the evening. Provide a comfy alternative like flip flops or flats and your girls will love you for it.

Be generous ~ Shower them with fun and gifts and presents! Organize lots of fun get togethers involving wine and yummy snacks, and spoil them with special bridesmaid gifts. Nothing will make them feel more special than a personal gift from you, the bride, and it will be a perfect keepsake from your wedding, too. Overall, be the coolest bride you can be – treat your bridesmaids well, and they will return the favor!

BONUS Articles: So, You’re a Bridesmaid… What Now?
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Saturday, January 24, 2015

Three Engagement Don’ts!

Anna Post, Guest Author

Holiday cheer often leads couples to start the New Year with the news, “We’re engaged!” Between Thanksgiving and New Year’s many people are sharing news of their engagement. Which leads to the first engagement don’t:

1. Don’t share your engagement news on social media before sharing it with your family.

WEDEngagmentsYou’re engaged, you’re so excited, and you can’t wait to tell everyone! The world of social media sometimes makes us forget the importance of face-to-face and verbal communication. But before you update your status for all to see, be sure to tell parents and children firs-ideally in person or over the phone if that is the only possibility. People want to hear the news directly from you!

Family, such as grandparents, and close friends can be hurt if they find out news of your engagement through something as impersonal as a group email or a Facebook post. So, tell the most important people first, and ask them in turn not to share the news until you’ve made all your personal announcements. Then, tweet and share away.

2. Avoid the rush to gush.

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It happens so quickly – you’re engaged one second, and the next, everyone is asking the date, the location, and the names of everyone in your wedding party. Despite your excitement, don’t get too caught up in the pressure to have all the answers.

Instead of sharing undecided plans or digging yourself into a hole by making promises you can’t keep, pause a moment and say, “It’s so early in our planning, we still have lots of things to decide!”

3. Don’t forget the big picture.

With sites like Pinterest full of beautiful wedding images it’s easy to be inspired by every tiny element of wedding planning. But it’s also easy to get lost in those details, even early on. Once you know your date and location, talk with your partner about your top big-picture priorities for the wedding; maybe food and music, or the invitation and flowers.

This will help you create your vision and keep the focus on what’s most important to the two of you as the decisions and expenses mount. And while you’re prioritizing your top elements of wedding planning, put the plans down from time to time and spend time together on the other interests you share.

Copyright © 2014 – Anna Post. Anna Post is the great-great-granddaughter of etiquette guru Emily Post and author of Emily Post’s Wedding Etiquette. For more information on sharing engagement news, check out, Emily Post’s Wedding Etiquette, 6th edition or visit www.EmilyPost.com.

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Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Watch Larry James in Action!

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This is for Brides and Grooms who are looking for a customized, “romantic” wedding ceremony with some refreshing words that will capture the attention of your guests; one that is truly different from the ordinary, traditional wedding ceremony. If that’s what you are looking for you’ve come to the right place. Your wedding is your very romantic day! We want to help you create a day uniquely your own and make it a memorable event.

Larry’s Note: A very special “Thank you” to Sarah & Carl Anderson of Princess Bride Cinematic Videography for their contribution and excellent work on top two videos below. Visit their Website: www.PrincessBrideVideo.com. Arizona (Greater Phoenix Area & Tucson) and Minnesota (Twin Cities Area).

To watch a video which highlights all the main events from Tasha and Brian’s destination wedding at Sassi in Scottsdale, click here!

The following video showcases Larry James, non-denominational minister, professional speaker, author & relationship coach. Larry performs the most “romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere. Enjoy this clip from a wedding performed at Sassi Ristorante in Scottsdale featuring Tasha and Brian Winkels. Visit http://www.CelebrateIntimateWeddings.com – More than 475 pages of wedding tips, ceremony ideas, and everything you need to have a “romantic,” memorable wedding. Larry James has been voted “Best Wedding Officiant” in the Greater Phoenix area by the Wedding Chronicle’s Reader’s Poll for 2007, 2008 & 2009. Also voted “Best Wedding Officiant” by Arizona Sites and Services Magazine for 2008. He has won the “Bridal’s Choice” award from WeddingWire.com for 2009, 10, 11, 13, 14 & 2015.

The following 27 minute ceremony was shortened and compressed to 10 minutes for YouTube. We started with the 80 minute DVD we produced for Tammi & Jay, and re-edited it to feature the officiant Larry James. Here, you can see why Larry remains, year after year, one of the most sought-after officiants in Arizona. Cherished Moments Video & Photography was pleased to share the joy and love this couple celebrated, and worked with Larry to make this day their most memorable. Visit us at http://www.azcherishedmoments.com

Larry’s NOTE: My “romantic” wedding ceremony is always a work in progress. The video below is just one example. Every bride and groom does the final edit of the ceremony, always giving them the last word on what is said in their wedding ceremony. Click here for an updated version of my ceremony.

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Copyright © 2015 – Larry James. This information is adapted from Larry’s Wedding Website and Wedding Blog. Larry James is a non-denominational minister and performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere! Every wedding ceremony is customized to your complete satisfaction. Call to check availability: Cell: 480-205-3694. You will find more than 475 pages of Wedding ideas, tips (90 tips and growing), ceremonies, and more at: http://www.celebrateintimateweddings.com. Check Larry’s availability.

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Friday, January 16, 2015

Guaranteed! No Hangovers on Your Wedding Day!

You’ve all seen “The Hangover,” a movie about three groomsmen who go overboard at their friend’s bachelor party and wake up with no memory of what has taken place. The groom is nowhere to be found, and the groomsmen go on an epic mission to find him before the wedding.

Oh, my!

WEDnoHangoversOne idea is to skip the bachelor and bachelorette parties. That’ll help.

If you have lots of friends in your wedding party, you will need a rehearsal. By having a wedding rehearsal, you can ensure that everyone involved with the ceremony knows the rest of the bridal party as well as their responsibilities.

Every person involved in your ceremony should attend: the bridesmaids, groomsmen, parents, flower girl, ring bearer, Officiant, readers, and especially the bride and groom. It is considerate to invite the spouse or significant other of each attendant. The purpose of a rehearsal dinner is to provide an intimate setting for the two families to mingle before the big event. The rehearsal is designed to make the Bride and Groom familiar with the ceremony so they can be more relaxed on their big day.

Here is my idea: Break tradition! Have your rehearsal two days before the wedding, not the typical night before. Why?

Consider scheduling a Wednesday rehearsal for a Friday wedding or a Thursday rehearsal for a Saturday wedding. In other words: Consider choosing a rehearsal date two days before your wedding day, not one day before. This idea separates two stressful days and gives you a day of rest before the wedding to get last-minute things done. (The Groom will need time for a pedicure, right?) ;-)

At the rehearsal dinner… the social lubrication portion can can get a little crazy and can offer a few headaches the morning after the night before. If you have that extra day in between the rehearsal/rehearsal dinner and the wedding, that pretty much will guarantee that every one in the wedding party will be clear-headed and ready for the main event.

There is also more time to relax, recuperate, and get ready for the big day. If most attendants won’t be arriving until late on the eve of your wedding, a breakfast celebration the morning before the wedding is also acceptable. Some couples are just having the rehearsal and skipping the rehearsal dinner.

If you have 12 in your wedding party – 6 bridesmaid and 6 groomsmen – and 2 or 3 are from out-of-town, go ahead and have your rehearsal without them and fill them in on the details of the rehearsal the day they arrive or the day of the wedding. If you only have 1 or 2 on each side you may not need a rehearsal.

Have out-of-town bridal party people? Plan special things for them to do – sans social lubrication (no pub crawls) – the day before the wedding. Plan some tame things for them to do. Take this opportunity to spend some quality time with your loved ones because the best day of your life is just around the corner.

BONUS Articles: Goody Bags for Out-of-Town” Wedding Guests
7 Dos and Don’ts for a Perfect STEN Do
How to Host a Unique Bachelor Party
Get Me to the Rehearsal on Time!
The Rehearsal & the Rehearsal Dinner! It’s Fun Time!
Do You Need a Wedding Rehearsal?
Will You Have Out-of-town Guests?

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Copyright © 2015 – Larry James. This information is adapted from Larry’s Wedding Website and Wedding Blog. Larry James is a non-denominational minister and performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere! Every wedding ceremony is customized to your complete satisfaction. Call to check availability: 480-998-9411 or 800-725-9223. You will find more than 475 pages of Wedding ideas, tips (90 tips and growing), ceremonies, and more at: http://www.celebrateintimateweddings.com. Check Larry’s availability.

comment2Subscribe to Larry’s FREE monthly “LoveNotes for Lovers” eZINE. Contact: CelebrateIntimateWeddings.com, P.O. Box 12695, Scottsdale, AZ 85267-2695. – CelebrateIntimateWeddings.com

NOTE: All articles, “LoveNotes” and wedding tips listed in this Wedding BLOG – written by Larry James – are available for reprint in magazines, periodicals, newsletters, newspapers, eZINEs, on the Internet or on your own Website. Click here for details.

Add Larry James to your Facebook page: http://www.Facebook.com/larry.james
Follow Larry’s “once daily” Relationship Tweet at: http://www.Twitter.com/larryjames
Follow Larry’s “Relationship BLOG” at: http://CelebrateLove.wordpress.com/
Follow Larry’s “Networking BLOG” at: http://NetworkingHQ.wordpress.com
Lots of Wedding Ideas on: Larry’s Pinterest Page

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