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Wednesday, April 23, 2014

How to Find a Qualified Wedding Officiant

It has been my experience that most brides and grooms will pick the date, book the venue, then hire the DJ or Band, Photographer, Videographer, caterer, Photo Booth, etc., and wait until the very last minute to hire the most important person for your ceremony – the wedding officiant. The wedding officant sets the tone for your entire celebration. The really great officiants have very busy schedules. Most of the good ones book months in advance. If you want someone who will perform a really great wedding ceremony, please don’t wait until the last minute.

HOT TIP: Choose your wedding date first. Second, seek out a wedding venue that fits your style and taste. Third, hire your wedding officiant!

mcneil2Before you start looking for a wedding officiant, make sure you know what you want – after all, picking someone to marry you and your partner is something to consider carefully. What kind of ceremony do you want? What kind of vibe do you want for your big day? What would you like your officiant to say? Will they be willing change parts of the ceremony that you don’t like and add something that you do like?

What qualities do you want your officiant to have – would you like them to add a little light humor? Be serious? Do you want the vows to be romantic? Sentimental? Formal? Would you prefer to write some of your own words or vows to add to the ceremony? It’s better to begin thinking about all this before you call someone.

If you’re planning a traditional religious wedding, finding an officiant will be easy. That kind of officiant typically comes along with the place of worship. But if you’re not getting married in a church, temple, or synagogue, what then? Never fear, finding an officiant is possible. Do they charge extra to travel? Most do. It’s usually not too difficult to find an officiant who will come to your location of choice.

If you’ve got the date, have carefully planned your budget, and the wedding venue booked, your next step is to find a qualified wedding officiant.

Are you planning a traditional religious ceremony? If so, first contact your place of worship. Some wedding officiants can perform beautiful spiritual ceremonies. If you’re not getting married in a church, temple, or synagogue finding an officiant should be easier. If you’re looking for an officiant with a specific religious background, you may have to seek them out by narrowing your overall search. Same thing with finding an officiant if you’re looking to have a non-religious, non-spiritual or civil ceremony.

BringQuestionsDo you know someone who has been married recently? Remember to ask your friends and family if they were impressed and satisfied with their officiant. If so, ask for their contact information. Check your wedding venue’s “preferred vendor’ list. Usually only the names of qualified wedding officiants who have worked at the venue are listed. Most will allow you to hire a wedding officiant who is not on their list, unless you purchase a package deal and do not get to choose who performs the ceremony.

Be sure to choose someone who will be a good match for you and your partner. Get to know the officiant you interview. Listen to their speaking voice, their style and personality, and watch videos of them performing a real wedding ceremony Check their references. Bring lots of questions. Click here to read some on the questions you may want to ask.

If you are having a destination wedding and it’s not possible to meet up with the officiant in person before the ceremony, be certain to get references, and definitely spend some time talking by phone about the details of your wedding with them. Be totally satisfied or call someone else!

Caution: Hiring Uncle George or a friend who has never performed a wedding ceremony before is taking a big risk. It’s nice that Uncle George has offered to do it for free, however, always remember you get what you pay for. Sometimes free is good. However, this is your wedding… pay a little more and hire the best. Make the cuts to your budget somewhere else, not the wedding officiant. As I said before, the wedding officant sets the tone for your entire wedding celebration. A poorly trained, inexperienced wedding officiant with a boring ceremony can leave the guests cold and uninspired. If you want a memorable wedding ceremony, choose wisely. Hire someone who has experience and knows the ins-and-outs of a wedding ceremony.

HOT TIP #2: Arrange a time to get together with Larry James – an award winning wedding officiant – for a no-cost, no pressure, no-obligation interview. Larry serves the Greater Phoenix area, Sedona, Flagstaff, Tucson, an occasional beach wedding in Rocky Point, Mexico, and anywhere else your budget allows. (Please excuse the shameless plug!) ;-)

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Saturday, April 19, 2014

Newlyweds: Make Some Good Habits & Break the Bad Habits!

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Just as we have all figured out about one thing or another in life, bad habits are hard to break! Fortunately good ones are too! There are, naturally, many different changes that take place once you’re married… your daily routines adapt to one another’s routine, your sleeping pattern alters, your eating habits, your interaction and communication conforms to one another’s, and so on. So start newlywed life off on the right foot!

Get into the “good” habits with your spouse as you step into the married world, so that you’re more likely to continue following in each other’s positive nature, thirty years down the road! Here are a few ideas for you to think about, while deciding what is important in your marriage, and to help you recognize what your good habits are with your spouse!

goodhabitsbadhabitsKissing each other hello and goodbye (of course) but also kiss for no reason! What better, more simplistic way of showing each other the love and affection you have for them. Remember, it’s the little things that mean so much!

• Keeping communication open and honest between you and your spouse is one of the more important good habits to get into. This is something that will be important in your relationship for life!

• Resolve disagreements through discussion with an open mind. It’ s never good to continue an argument for any length of time, so talking things out with one another, and not walking away mad is key!

• Taking time for you. It’s important to spend time together and it’s just as important to spend time doing something for you! If your spouse is glued to the TV and you have absolutely no interest in Survivor Man, then grab a book, and read next to him (then you’re both happy).

• If you and your spouse have children, and have a designated “date night with just the two of you, stick to it! It’s important to remember that time alone is one key to a good marriage.

• Remember to spend time with your friends whether it be dinner and drinks or a day of shopping… it’s important not to lose touch!

• Do things together; such as sit down for breakfast in the morning or make dinner together at night, go to church on the weekends, visit your families on a regular basis… whatever it may be, keeping a variety of positive activities in your life helps to bring you closer as a couple!

6 Bad Habits That Can Ruin Your Marriage

We all know the odds are stacked against us newlyweds these days with the divorce rate through the roof (50% being 1 out of 2 marriages), so now more than ever couples need to keep the lines of communication open and honest. There are so many things that can ruin a marriage and nobody’s perfect! Try to stay away from the following bad habits and rest assured that the bond between you and your partner will continue to grow together rather than apart.

Bad Habit #1: Keeping Secrets. Whether it’s about finances, friends or your career; there’s no room for secrets in a marriage. I’m not talking about when your best friend says, “Swear you won’t tell anyone about…” I’m talking about hiding big purchases, not talking to your spouse about your feelings, etc.

Bad Habit #2: Disorganization. You may find that from time to time your home office looks like a bomb went off, but if your entire home is in disarray it may be time to do some serious housekeeping! Being disorganized will cause you both to feel anxious and out of control. It could cause you to miss due dates on important bills, adding unnecessary stress to you and your spouse; which will undoubtedly strain your relationship.

SexIsFunBad Habit #3: Confiding in Relatives and Friends instead of your partner. One of the best parts of being married is always having someone to confide in and not having to worry about being judged for your opinions. You certainly would not appreciate finding out that your husband/wife confided in a parent, friend, co-worker or neighbor about something that he/she should have trusted you with. It hurts, don’t do it.

Bad Habit #4: Constant Criticism. It’s ok not to agree with each other all the time (you are allowed to be individuals with your own opinions); however nagging your spouse constantly about the little things that really do not matter in the scheme of life will result in a lot of fighting and negative feelings in your marriage.

Bad Habit #5: No Sex Life. Careers, children and other responsibilities and obligations are the cause of exhaustion—we all get it! Remember sex is one (major) key to a happy marriage and without it the two of you will be left feeling disconnected and will be more like roommates rather than husband and wife. Get out the lingerie and pretend like you’re dating again so you don’t become one of the 15-20% of couples in a sexless marriage (sex 10 or less times per year—yikes)! Watch this video (featuring Dr. David Schnarch, Sex Therapist) for advice on this topic, and to get a better understanding of just how many couples will experience this issue in their marriage.

Bad Habit #6: Forgetting the important words. Saying please and thank you have always been important words in my house, but saying I love you each and every day at least once is the most important. While actions may speak louder than words, reminding your partner that you love them is the utmost important thing you can ever say to them.

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Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Must-Do List for Every Sandals Destination Honeymoon Bride!

Planning your honeymoon at a Sandals Resort? Here’s the latest scoop!

1. Hair and Makeup Trial

SandalsYou’d never buy your wedding dress without trying it on – the same goes for hair and makeup. Although you may know what works for your hair regularly, tropical climates can be a bit trickier. Fluctuations in humidity, temperature and breeze can be challenging for a bride to handle without some serious experience. Trust your stylist and do a trial before the big day. You’re stylist won’t let you leave unhappy. You’ll feel confident on the big day without worrying about whether or not your hair and makeup can stand up to the tropical climate.

2. Digital Photo Album and Videographer

This is especially important if you have family members that are unable attend the ceremony. Your pictures and video will stay with your forever without worry of damage and you can share your memories with generations to come.

3. Private Candlelight Dinner

Experience a private paradise with your brand new spouse under the stars. Weddings are wonderful, but the private moments that you and your love can spend alone are the topper to your wedding cake. Take advantage of your destination location’s private dinner services or have a rose petal drawn bath with ambient candles to set the mood in the privacy of your own room.

4. Sand Ceremony

Similar to the tradition of the unity candle, the sand ceremony is a popular tradition in the Caribbean. Here’s how it goes: Each person choses a color and during your ceremony, you will each pour your colored sand into a decorative jar to signify that you have become one – no one will ever be able to separate each sand color again. It’s a significant way to show your oneness that you can take home with you.

5. Couple’s Massage

Need I say more? Book a couple’s massage to experience a blissful state of mind with your spouse. Many couple’s rooms come equipped with a shower and hot tub so you’re pampering doesn’t need to end with a massage. Not only is it a great pre-wedding practice, but it’s also a fab way to start your first day together!

6. Explore!

Sandals-Honeymoon-160x600You want to ensure your Weddingmoon® is truly memorable so book that once in a lifetime tour and explore the destination of your dreams.

7. Private Transfer

Your Weddingmoon® starts the moment you step off the plane so to avoid any delay in getting started and arrive in style by booking a private transfer for that true VIP service.

Is there anything you should/shouldn’t be doing before the big day?

While you definitely want to avoid the big “No-No’s” like cutting your hair, over doing the sun or drastic skin procedures there are some things you should avoid the “morning of” as well!

Don’t Have that Large Coffee. While a hot double latte sounds like a great idea first thing in the morning … don’t! Wedding day jitters plus a double dose of caffeine equals a really shaky bride.

Don’t drink too much. I know I know… it’s time to celebrate; however you still have a wedding to get through. A drunken bride is not a pretty bride and slurred vows won’t be something you want to see on your wedding video later. Save the champagne toasts for the reception (and the honeymoon).

Don’t Tan in the Can. Fake tan is especially a “no-no” for beach brides who will be taking vows underneath a Caribbean sun and may risk a little perspiration (and a brand new tan streak down the front of their white dress). If you’re bent on having a bit of a tan, try and get some sun in small safe doses in the months leading up to your nuptials or hit up a tanning salon. A light dust of make-up bronzer may be all it takes to give you a hint of color.

Don’t make drastic last minute changes. Pass on making any extreme last minute decisions period. Don’t wake up the morning of and decide to try that new tight curled hairstyle J-Lo had on American Idol two nights ago. Sometimes the desire to change your mind is just pre-wedding jitters or “performance anxiety”. Will everyone love my hair? What if my make-up looks too plain? Stop! Remember your wedding is not a show!

Don’t stress about it! This one may be easier said than done but avoiding pre-ceremonial stress may be as simple as turning your cell phone off. If the thought of no cellphone gives you separation anxiety jitters, then hand it over to your maid of honor to screen your calls and answer on your behalf. The morning of is not the time to stress over tiny little details. We’re sure all the bows on your favor box ribbons will be tied with a double knot instead of one and all your chocolates will be the same flavor. Your guests will not pack up and leave if you’re running a few minutes late and no one will notice their steak came with Idaho potatoes instead of Irish potatoes! Do you want to know a secret? You’re the only one who knows how everything is “supposed to go!” No one will know that your shoes were supposed to be eggshell instead of ivory if you don’t tell them.

The best advice that I can offer to any bride the morning of her wedding is to stay relaxed and think of your fiancé’s face the moment he sees you walking down the aisle. Everything else pales in comparison!

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Friday, April 11, 2014

Brides & Grooms: A Way to Tame the Butterflies!

Filed under: Emotional?,Nervous?,Wedding Tips — Larry James @ 6:30 am
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Rarely have I ever met a bride and groom who has not been a little nervous when they are getting married. It matters not if it’s the first or second marriage, usually there is a little shortness of breath, a tightening in the chest, a sense of awkwardness or anxiousness going on. All symptoms of being nervous.

TamingButterflies2Anxiety is part of our natural defensive system – a close cousin to fear. With fear, however, the threat is more readily identifiable. For instance, someone is waving a gun. Like fear, anxiety is the body’s red warning light that something is amiss. The brain releases adrenaline. The pupils dilate. The heart pumps out blood like an engine on steroids, gearing the body to stand up and fight. Or perhaps to run faster than we ever imagined.

Studies demonstrate that glossophobia or fear of public speaking is the number one source of anxiety in the United States. In other words, being nervous is normal.

In my “romantic” wedding ceremony, there are only five words that the bride and groom need to remember; “we do,” “I do” and “rings,” unless they add something to say to each other. In that case, I recommend that they “never” try to memorize, but rather become familiar with what they will be saying and read to each other from a card. If they do need to say something, the balance is usually “repeat after me,” in short, bits and pieces (something easy to remember). Pretty simple, yes? Knowing this might help a little but it does not do the trick for most who tend to hate being in front of and speaking in front of people.

When you are nervous a shot of whiskey, or a chocolate bar (or self medication) are not your friend. They are unhealthy ways to cope with anxiety and stress. You may think that feeling the need to “get a buzz on” in order relax would help, but it usually doesn’t. It’s been said that, “It’s not about getting rid of the butterflies. It’s about getting them to fly in formation,” or “getting your ducks in a row.” Really? I doubt that.

I’ve been a profession speaker since 1987 and I am about to share with you the best advice I ever received about getting around nervousness. I always remind brides and grooms that if they are nervous or become emotional during the ceremony to remember to breathe. Breathe? You already are breathing, you say? There is a right way to breathe when you are nervous! This simple act will prevent tunnel-vision and blackouts. Turns out, when we get anxious we tend to breathe very shallow and fast, resulting in insufficient oxygen to that all important body part your brain.

Here’s what to do: If you feel nervous or get emotional during the ceremony… pause… and intentionally breathe “in” through your nose and “out” through your mouth. Breathing in this way short-circuits your brain because you have to think about breathing this way. It temporarily distracts you from what you are nervous or emotional about. Feeling nervous or emotional during the ceremony? Breathe “in” through your nose and “out” through your mouth. This may sound a little crazy, but believe me, it really works! It worked for me and it will work for you. However, most likely, you may still feel the butterflies, but much less than usual.

Feeling nervous or emotional during your wedding ceremony? Remember to “breathe!”

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Monday, April 7, 2014

Something Olde, Something Blue…

Many brides are unfamiliar with the origin and meaning behind the old-new-borrowed-blue custom. The “Something Olde, Something Blue” tradition comes from an Old English rhyme (“Something Olde, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, A Sixpence in your Shoe”). These five objects that the bride adds to her wedding outfit or carries with her on her wedding day are simply good luck charms.

SomethingBlueEach verse of the rhyme refers to a good luck item:

Something old – continuity with the bride’s family and the past
Something new – optimism and hope for the bride’s new life ahead
Something borrowed – an item from a happily married friend or family member, whose good fortune in marriage is supposed to carry over to the new bride
Something blue – Before the late 19th century, blue was a popular color for wedding gowns, as evidenced in proverbs like, “Marry in blue, lover be true.” In ancient Rome, brides wore blue to symbolize love, modesty, and fidelity.
A Sixpence in your Shoe – The coin represents financial security

sixPenceA sixpence is a British coin worth six pennies that was minted from 1551 to 1967. Sixpences were also minted and used in Maryland, USA from the same date. The coin represents financial security. The belief was that if the bride carries each of these objects on her walk down the aisle she will enjoy a happy marriage. There’s printed evidence in the 1894 edition of the Pennsylvania newspaper, The Warren Ledger, which listed it as a Puritan Marriage Custom.

Something old symbolizes her connection with her family and the past. Something new represents her commitment to the future and her new family with the groom. Something borrowed plays double-duty – it usually comes from a happily married friend or family member and is supposed to transfer that positive mojo to the bride, and it shows the bride that she can rely on her support network to help her out. As for something blue, blue was a common color for bridal gowns before the late 19th century. Most brides interpret this tradition in a similar way, with a blue garter, some borrowed and old jewelry, and a new wedding dress.

Here are a few ideas to get your creative juices going:

something-old• A relative’s monogrammed handkerchief
• Find heirloom jewelry to wear like an engagement ring or wedding band, a brooch, earrings, a bracelet, a necklace, or some sparkly hair pins
• A vintage compact mirror for her purse
• Give the bride new lingerie to wear under her gown or on her honeymoon
• Let the groom borrow grandfather’s pocket watch or have the bride carry it in her purse
• Select a blue guest book or place cards for your guests
• Use a relative’s silver knife to cut the cake with at the reception
• Use blue confetti
• Dress in a blue underskirt
• Wear a locket containing old family photos around your neck on the big day
• …Use your imagination

Wearing these items is supposed to symbolise good luck for the bride, they are also just a fun tradition that gives the bride an opportunity to express her admiration for a few special people in her life on her special day.

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Thursday, April 3, 2014

Newlywed Romance Tips…

Filed under: Marriage Tips!,Money Matters — Larry James @ 7:30 am
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Newlyweds who watch five relationship movies together are half as likely to divorce or separate within three yeas as ones who do not, reports Ronald D. Rogge, PhD. His research focuses on understanding relationships and the early years of marriage.

RomantiicTips4NewlywedsWatching five movies from the more than 100 listed at Couples-Research.com and then discussing them using the site’s interactive tools will help couples actively set aside time to prioritize and focus on their relationship, thus strengthening bonds.

Researchers at the University of Rochester are looking for couples to participate in a research study of how reflecting on your relationship using popular movies can impact relationships over time. Interested? Click here!

• Here’s another way too help your relationship: From Martha beck’s latest book, “Martha Beck Collection; Essays for Creating You Right Life” she says, “Always tell yourself the truth! The most intimate connection in your life is the one you have with yourself. Dishonest in your relationship is at best counterproductive, at worst catastrophic. If you want your relationship to work, tell yourself the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. This can be difficult. We all tell ourself lies, whether occasionally or habitually, often without realizing we are lying to ourselves.

Fortunately, we can always locate our own untruths: Just follow the fumes of suffering. Believing lies makes us miserable. That’s why all effective counseling, from therapy to chatting with your nana, focuses on trusting your gut and owning your thoughts and feelings.”

• Practice non-judgment with your mate. Judgment kills empathy. Guess what? Empathy is necessary because empathy is what fuels trust and intimacy!

• Take time to schedule a relationship tune-up several times a year. The truth is, we could all use one occasionally. Attend a relationship seminar. Read a great relationship book… together. Talk about it. What did you learn that you can plug into your own relationship? Call a relationship coach. It’s always best to get coaching before you need it. Unfortunately, some couples wait until there is no opportunity to keep the relationship together.

• One of the primary causes of relationship issues is the sensitive subject of money. You are perhaps both used to spending your earnings as and when you like and it may be difficult to have another person impose on your financial decisions – particularly if one of you earns more than the other. Couples you have strong relationship live longer and have a much better change of staying together. The classic line in many wedding ceremonies includes the words, “for richer or for poorer.”

Couples who once smoothed over spats with a little shopping therapy can no longer afford to fill that prescription. Marital roles are shifting as onetime breadwinners adjust to long bouts of unemployment. Husbands and wives are blaming each other for bad investments and onerous debt.

Money is the biggest stress on married couples in many years. It seems to be the top reason that most couples find themselves in major disagreements. Although the longer they are together, the less they argue about money. It is imperative that couples discuss financial statuses beforehand and as you make plans for the future. Make some agreements and keep them.

• The dreaded housework hangup. Nowhere is it written that the wife must do all the housework! Another idea for minimising the risk of conflict is to divide up the housework early on in your marriage. Agreements work well with this issue too. However you do it, make sure that you settle the matter fairly so that neither of you feels taken advantage of; after all, you want to feel as though you have entered a loving marriage, not signed on as a housekeeper.

• Keep the romance alive. With today’s busy schedules it’s important to make time to spend with each other. Never stop doing the thing that brought you together in the first place. Schedule a weekly date-night.

• And finally… Never deprive your partner of S-E-X, otherwise they may hop into someone else’s bed and worsen the situation. Have fun with intimacy. Sex is fun and pleasure is good for you! Read: “Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers!

What are some of the ideas you and your partner use to spice up your relationship? Please add them to the comments for others to share.

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Sunday, March 30, 2014

Save $$$s With an Off-Season Wedding in the Arizona Desert

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In Sunny Arizona we have two wedding seasons. While brides and grooms in the mid-west and the east tend to plan their weddings in June, wedding vendors in the Greater Phoenix area are busiest in March, April and May and again in October, November and December. Why? Because the temperatures in June through September – our off-season – in the desert can melt the Unity Candles and be quite uncomfortable.

There is a big however… Some of the finest Arizona resorts and reception facilities have greater availability during our off-season. Wedding professionals estimate brides and grooms on tight budgets can often save several thousand dollars, depending on the size of your wedding and the day they choose.

CasualDressCodeOn off days, like weekdays and Sundays can save you even more. The exception is Fridays, out second busiest day for weddings. Most brides and groom still choose Saturday as the busiest day for weddings.

For brides who aren’t put off by a little bit of extra heat and humidity, summertime is the perfect season for a beautiful wedding. Besides it’s a dry heat! ;-) And to be honest… it’s still hot. Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate! Remember to provide multiple ice cold water stations spiked with citrus slices to keep your guest hydrated. By the way, beer and wine don’t count toward keeping you hydrated. Nonalcoholic drinks are a wise choice.

Ask your wedding consultant to keep a special eye on itty-bitty people and elderly people; these groups are more apt to become quickly dehydrated. Rent a gelato cart, snow cone machine or set up an ice cream bar at the reception.

Consider printing your program on hand fans that ushers give to everyone as they are seated. The ladies will appreciate having the extra breeze during the ceremony to keep their makeup in place. Provide small spray bottles filled with cool water that the guests can use to spritz themselves. Out-of-town guests appreciate summer weddings because their kids are out of school and bosses are sometimes more lenient with vacation time.

Using a little strategy can often save you money. Food and labor cost are pretty much remain the same, but in June through September there are often some incredible savings on room rates for your out-of-town guests.

Push the ceremony back so it’s as late in the evening as possible. The hottest part of the day is around 3 and 4 o’clock, so how about planning an evening wedding. Near sunset or after dark works best. That’s when the sun will be well past its peak damage potential. Contact a lighting company to provide special lighting for a romantic glow.

Consider a “dress casual” wedding by lightening up the dress code even if you choose an indoor venue. Address wardrobe options via an invitation insert, e.g., “Stiflingly hot jackets and ties forbidden!” or “Lightweight clothing advised.” Any time earlier than sunset and you can count on higher temperatures. Consider relaxing the wardrobe requirements especially for your groomsmen. Light-colored dresses and slacks for the guys will help them stay cool. Light, breathable fabrics can save the day. If you must have tuxedoes have the guys dress moments before the wedding.

What about photos after dark? The bride and groom could do a “First Look” and do most of your wedding photos before the wedding instead of after. Photos in direct sunlight are never quite as good. Follow your photographer’s advice.

Ask your florist to suggest flowers that will not wilt as quickly. Avoid white flowers with white blossoms as the tend to lose their appeal as they lose their moisture.

Guests tend to eat less when it’s hot, so ask your caterer to make suggestions. Beat the heat with a themed reception. South-of-the-border food is very popular in the Arizona desert. OR brighten up your menu with tropical fruit, which can be served fresh, in sorbets or even as a glaze for the main dish. Cold salads are another great idea.

The shade is your friend. Canopies or tents can be rented and installed cheaply and easily. Check prices on outdoor fans. It’s money well spent. And as an after-thought… you could have your wedding indoors although most of my weddings love the outdoors because the Arizona scenery provides such great photo opts.

Summer weddings in Arizona can save you money and a lot of fun.

BONUS Articles: How To Make Your Summer Wedding Cool
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Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Recently Married Man Realized Marriage Is Not For Him!

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This Is What He Wrote To His New Wife…
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Saturday, March 22, 2014

Brides! Should You Fire Your Bridesmaid?

Kirsten Hansen, Guest Author

When it comes to dealing with drama, Little Red Lupine (aka Kirsten, the Community Manager of the Offbeat Bride Tribe) has held thousands of brides’ hands as they work through it. Here’s her advice on one particularly thorny issue…

FireBridesmaidYes, firing a bridesmaid sounds shitty. Honestly, it usually feels pretty shitty. There are lots of different reasons that a bridesmaid just might not work out — some that are high drama (like a fight or a friendship ending) and some that aren’t quite as emotional (life situation changes, unexpected illness or injury). Regardless, it still sucks. And it isn’t just bridesmaids. Maybe it’s a bridesdude, a groomswoman, a groomsman, or anyone who you asked to stand up with you at your wedding.

If you’re in this situation, there are probably a lot of feels. And we all know that when there are strong feelings, it can be way easy to say or do something you might regret. If you’re having issues with a wedding party member to the degree where you want to ask them to step down, you really need to keep your cool and just make it through with minimal damage. You also need to carefully consider your own responsibilities in the situation, and take ownership for your own issues.

Think about why you asked them in the first place

Were you expecting your bridesmaid to be a henchwoman? Were you asking because of what they mean to you? Do you feel like you owe them because you were in their wedding party? Is there history you want to respect? You asked them, so you must have had some reason… but maybe you aren’t really clear on what it was, or maybe it wasn’t the best reason. When you take the time to examine your own motivations, you may be able to better understand the role that you’ve played in things falling apart.

Consider exactly why you think it might be time to fire them

Make sure you really understand your reasoning. Are they not living up to your expectations? (Do they even know what their expectations are?) Are you no longer friends? Do you want to do this for their sake due to finances, time availability, or health considerations? Then think about how this compares with why you asked them in the first place.

As much as possible, try to focus on the actions you have taken — it’s easy to blame other people, but it’s much more difficult to look at how your choices contributed to a rough situation. If someone’s not meeting your expectations, is there a chance you were unclear or they misunderstood? Be honest with yourself.

Talk to them

Note that I said talk. I know it can feel way easier to send an email or text but trust me, on the Offbeat Bride Tribe, I’ve seen how even the best-intended emails can play out — and it’s infrequently well. You may be angry or hurt (and here are some tips for communicating when hurt or angry), and you may say something you will regret. Or they may misunderstand something you typed.
You need to have a conversation if at all possible — preferably in person, and definitely in private. Here are some things to talk about:

• If you’re undecided about them remaining in the wedding party, ask them about their feelings. Find out what’s going on for them. If they haven’t been responding to messages about the wedding, it may be because something has come up in their life that you don’t know about. Listen carefully.
• Talk openly about your concerns. Again, take full ownership for the role you have played in miscommunications and mis-aligned expectations. Apologize if you weren’t clear about expectations, or had unreasonable expectations that don’t line up with their availability or resources.
• Be sure to emphasize that you asked them to be a bridesmaid because they are important to you.
• Don’t be a dick. Stay open-hearted and patient. Think of this as information-gathering. There are no wrong answers. Don’t cast judgment on any feelings that come up. Just listen, and learn. Most importantly, take responsibility for your own role in things going awry. Yes, she might have fucked up royally… but even if your take-away is just “I should have been more thoughtful in making my original decision,” there’s almost always a lot for YOU to learn in conversations like this.

In talking, you may learn that your bridesmaid is actually looking for a way out. You won’t know until you talk to her.
Sometimes, you just have to end it.

Ok. You examined your own original motivations and potential mis-steps. You talked to them open-heartedly. You listened. You learned. And it’s clear: this is not going to work.

If you know it’s not going to work, then it’s in everyone’s best interests to ask your bridesmaid to step down. Now obviously, if you want to remain friends with them, you need to be as respectful and loving as possible — even as you’re asking them to step down from being a bridesmaid. Even if you’ve realized that a friendship is over, you still need to act with integrity.

Here are ways to word a difficult message:

“I asked you to be my bridesmaid because you are super important to me. You will always be important to me… but at this point, I’d rather you be a guest at my wedding than a bridesmaid. I feel like we’re not lining up on our ideas about you being a bridesmaid, and want us to be able to both enjoy my wedding together — and it feels like having you attend as a guest is the best way to do that.”

“I love you and I know your life is really busy right now with _____. I really want to support you in being able to focus on that, and so let’s just have you come to my wedding as a guest instead of as a bridesmaid.”

“This is emotional and hard, but I guess I’m just going to rip off the band-aid: I want you to come to my wedding as a guest, and not as a bridesmaid. This was a really rough decision, and I totally understand if you’re upset with me. I hope you can understand why I made this choice, but I understand if you’re mad or frustrated.”

Unless you’re ending the friendship, it can be helpful to talk to your former bridesmaid about other future plans. Even if it’s just “Let’s get drinks next week,” it can be hugely reassuring to know that just because being a bridesmaid isn’t working out, doesn’t mean the relationship needs to be over.

The goal with any difficult conversation is to take responsibility for yourself, and communicate with integrity and maturity. It can be easy to try to externalize it when bridesmaids don’t work out, but ultimately this is your choice, and your responsibility. Do what you need to do, but do it with respect.

BONUS Articles: Q & A – Can I Remove a Bridesmaid from the Wedding Party?
Serving Her Majesty the Bride: To Be a Maid of Honor… or Not
6 Tips on How to Avoid Embarrassment as the Bridesmaid!

Copyright 2014 – Kirsten Hansen. Kirsten Hansen, aka Little Red Lupine, is an academically-minded geek who works in instructional technology by day and crafts by night… when she isn’t playing video games or watching TV with her husband, playing with their ferrets, or cuddling their kitties. She can usually be found with her nose in a book but might just be baking something yummy instead.

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Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Father/Daughter Dance Songs

Brides! Your father walked you down the aisle, gave you away, and now it’s time to hit the dance floor. Is there a more emotional moment in a father’s or a daughter’s life than when you dance together at your wedding reception?

fatherdaughterdanceWhat song do you remember your dad singing when you were a little girl? The father/daughter dance is one of the most special and poignant parts of the day for the bride and her dad. Think carefully about whether you want a sentimental ballad or simply a song that makes everyone laugh (see video below).

You could choose to do have the DJ play a remix and do a special dance routine. To avoid being the cheesy/creepy/awkward dad-and-daughter couple, consider one of the fantastic father-daughter dance songs from our list compiled from several DJs in the Greater Phoenix area. So what song will you choose for that special moment?

Frank Sinatra’s “The Way You Look Tonight”
Led Zepplin’s “Thank You”
Lynyrd Skynyrd’s “Simple Man”
John Mayer’s “Daughters”
Heartland’s “I Loved Her First”
Edwin McCain’s “Walk With You”
Rolling Stones’ “She’s a Rainbow”
Taylor Swift’s “The Best Day”
Amos Lee’s “Sweet Pea”
The Cars’ “Just What I Needed”
Natalie Grant’s “I’ll Always Be Your Baby”
Ray Allaire’s “A Song For My Daughter”
Warrant’s “Heaven”
Beyonce’s “Daddy”
Neil Young’s “Here for You”
Tony Ransom & The Heavenly Light Orchestra’s “When Angels Fly”
Steven Curtis Chapman’s “Cinderella”
Nat King Cole’s “Unforgettable”
Kenny Rogers’ “Through the Years”
Bruce Springsteen’s “When You Need Me”
The Beatles’ “In My Life”
Beach Boys’ “God Only Knows”
Celine Dion’s “Because You Loved Me”
Frankie Avalon’s “Bobby Sox to Stockings”
Rascal Flatts’ “My Wish”
Queen’s “You’re My Best Friend”
Taken by Trees’ “Sweet Child O’ Mine”
Guns and Roses’ “Sweet Child O’ Mine”
Nancy Sinatra’s “It’s For My Dad”
Mark Harris’s “Find Your Wings”
Paul Simon’s “Father and Daughter”
Stevie Wonder’s “Isn’t She Lovely”
James Taylor’s “You’ve Got a Friend”
Loudon Wainwright’s “Daughter”
Tim McGraw’s “My Little Girl”
Bad English’s “When I See You Smile”
Staind’s “Zoe Jane”
10,000 Maniacs’ “How You’ve Grown”
The Temptation’s “My Girl”
Tom Petty’s “American Girl”
Holly Dunn’s “Daddy’s Hands”
Barry Manilow’s “I Am Your Child”
Otis Redding’s “The Glory of Love”
Suzy Bogguss’ “Letting Go”
Luther Vandross’ “Dance With My Father”
Al Martino’s “Daddy’s Little Girl”
Michael Buble’s “Daddy’s Little Girl”
Bob Carlisle’s “Butterfly Kisses”

Larry’s NOTE: If you are at the office, remember to turn down the volume. I especially like this video because it is short and still gives the guests a special look at the daughter and dad.

Father/daughter dances do not have to be about the father. Many people have chosen a step-father, uncle, or close friend of the family. Part of the reason that fathers like the father/daughter dance is that it’s a special moment to have with his little girl. At one time this dance truly symbolized one of the last times a Father would be able to share such an intimate moment with his daughter. It was his chance to “say goodbye” after giving away his daughter in marriage. A father/daughter dance for some men can be a later in life “rite of passage” that they look forward to.

I understand what Brides are going through with having a father and a step-father, especially if you’re close to both of them. There are times when you may be closer to step-parents than our biological ones. You could pick 2 songs and just dance to a few minutes of each song and have the DJ can fade out of one song and introduce the next Dad to the dance floor for the 2nd dance. No one feels uncomfortable when something is done tastefully. I recommend that if you’re close enough with both of them, you dance with both of them.

If your father is deceased, there are other ways to honor him on your wedding day. You can light a candle for him during the ceremony or display a flower in remembrance of him. If dad had a favorite upbeat song, play it at some point in the reception, like during the cake cutting or wedding party dance.

I had a bride recently who had lost her father and chose to dance with another male family member who had been a positive influence on her life. One bride chose a brother to have a special dance with.

The Father/Daughter dance is three special minutes where you can thank your dad for everything, you can share advice, you can both share memories, laugh together or simply move together in sync. It’s an important time-honored tradition. It’s about making a memory to share with others and to remember yourself. Bride’s, don’t miss this special time with your dad.

Would love for you to add your favorite Father/Daughter dance songs in the comments below.

BONUS Article: Top 100 Popular Father/Daughter Dance Songs

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