Wedding Hairstyles for Brides – Choose Early

The Little Wedding Guide, Guest Author

Whether your wedding is coming up next month or next year, choosing the right hairstyle is something that you’ve probably thought about once or twice. Start collecting ideas for wedding hairstyles now, and pick several for your hair trial.

Here are a few tips to help you decide upon the perfect hairstyle for the big day.

The tools you’ll need:

1. A few bridal magazines. If you haven’t started thinking about the day-of “do,” one of the best places to start looking for hairstyle ideas is in bridal magazines. Hairstyling magazines are okay, but normally don’t have a lot of real bridal updos to browse through. See if you can find a few good glossy magazine pages to work from and save them to show to your stylist.

2. A little online research. This step should be a fun one – it’s easy to get overwhelmed with online photos, though, so stick to the basics and when you find a few photos of wedding hairstyles you like, go with them!

3. Look for photos on Pintrest.

Hint: You can Google terms like “wedding hairstyles,” etc., and then click on “Images” in the left sidebar next to the search results – this will show you literally thousands of photos that match your search term.

Some tips for your first hair trial appointment.

When discussing updos with your hair stylist, keep in mind that your profile will be facing your guests throughout most of the ceremony, as you face your fiancé. If you have medium-length to long hair, pulling it back or up on the top of your head (at least the front sections) will let your guests be able to see your beautiful and happy face, and not just a head full of hair. They want to see your beautiful smile, trust me!

When you have some styling ideas in mind, it’s a good idea to schedule a hair trial no later than about a month or so before the wedding. That will give you some built-in time to make changes to the final style if necessary.

Most importantly, be sure to bring your veil, headpiece, and anything else that you’ll be wearing on the day of the wedding to your hair trial appointment. Having a friend there with you to take a few pictures of your new style helps a lot too, just in case you decide you’d like to discuss any changes with your stylist before your final hair appointment.

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Welcome to Our Wedding ~ Video

Create a Welcome Video to be played just before you are introduced at the reception…

Most likely you won’t be able to greet all of your out-of-town guests when they arrive, so consider arranging a virtual welcome. Talk to your videographer about creating a brief video of the two of you welcoming them to your wedding location, and provide tips for things to do in the area along with what they can expect for the rest of the weekend (or simply create your own with a digital video camera!).

Danny & Eva’s “Welcome to our Wedding” video – Be sure to turn the volume down if you’re watching at the office!

Read more: 10 Simple Ways to Wow Your Wedding Guests!

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Will Sex on Your Wedding Night Be Unforgettable or Should You Fugetaboutit?

Your wedding night is a very special occasion in ways more than one and you should do whatever you can to make it a memorable night. It’s your first night together as wife and husband. Planning for your wedding night is just as important as planning for the wedding and reception. It’s a night to be savored by the both of you. Plan ahead to make it a night to be remembered.

Your wedding day is a often a stressful day with all the pressure, exhaustion and the expectations so be realistic in your approach… slow down. Take your time. Be realistic. It is an accepted statistical fact that these days, less than half of newlyweds consummate their union on the night of their wedding and often on the first night of their honeymoon. Why? Because they are so exhausted and emotionally drained from the weeks and the days that have preceded it that they just want to sleep and recover. What could happen is that one of you falls asleep, or isn’t in the mood. If they do, that is not a prediction of a doomed marriage. Spend the time relaxing and remembering how wonderful your wedding day was.

Wedding nights are only really steamy and romantic in the movies. It is wise to lower your expectations and just let it happen. Between the pressure, the exhaustion, and the alcohol you might have consumed at your wedding, this may not be the most amazing sex you’ve ever had. That’s okay. Cuddle. Do spoons. Rest up for another day. Your big day if over… time to relax and maybe just fall asleep in each other’s arms. That’s pretty sexy. Just try to enjoy whatever happens.

Anticipation is one of the key ingredients of making love. Premarital abstinence may help. Abstinence makes the loins grow stronger. For a period of time before the wedding, ban all sexual contact so that your desire for each other will build up until the wedding night. A week-long of celibacy might be a good idea.

Flirt with each other at your wedding and reception… then get frisky. It will help to arouse your desire for each other. Little things like holding hands, touching one another, etc., keep you focused on each other, and build anticipation as the wedding night approaches. Even in the presence of other people do not hesitate to let your partner know that you are looking forward to being intimate together later. Enjoy this moment with a wink, send them a kiss and tell them that you love them. Plan to sneak away during your reception to have a little alone time. Have your disc jockey/wedding entertainer plan a few things to involve the guests… for 15 or 20 minutes they probably won’t even notice that you are missing.

Be sure to plan ahead to ensure that you have transportation readily available after the reception to take you to your wedding night hotel. Let you family and friends be assigned to transport any gifts, etc., to your home… not you.

Romantic tradition has it that the groom should carry his wife over the threshold. Have children? Hire a trusted friend to watch the kids. Make sure you reserve a beautiful suite at a hotel. Never go the “cheap” route and go home after the wedding. Hang a “Do Not Disturb” sign on the door. Also don’t leave for your honeymoon right after the wedding. Sleep in. There’s nothing remotely sexy about waking up at 5:30 a.m. to catch an early flight. Breakfast in bed is a great idea. Remember to ask for a late check out at the hotel.

Next… relax. Plan a CD with some of your favorite soft music. No Cell phones or TV tonight… not even to check the scores. Order room service. With all the mingling, taking pictures, dancing, cutting the cake and giving a speech at your receptions, some couple are to busy to eat or enjoy their reception meal. Take some time to talk about the parts you liked best of your wedding day. Focus on each other. Highlight the special moments of your life together so far.

NOTE for the guys: Be gentle. Be romantic. This is the night to get very, very intimate. Go very, very slow. Pace yourself. Don’t be a two-minute wonder! Never feel any pressure to thunder into the hotel room and start rattling the bed posts. Skip the clichés and tell her what it really feels like to be laying next to the woman of your dreams on the most magical night of your life. Remember, intimacy is not only about sex. This is a great time to talk about how you truly “feel” about your partner. That is intimacy too.

There is nothing better than perfect ambiance. Have the hotel staff sprinkle rose petals on the bed, around the floor, and scatter lots of lit candles everywhere. Order chocolate-dipped strawberries. The room must smell of fresh fragrance. Scent can be a powerful aphrodisiac. Take a luxurious bubble bath together. Good hygiene is hot. Have some bed-side breath mints handy. Make this night special.

SideNote… Don’t ask friends to decorate your hotel suite. Some think it’s funny to “short-sheet” your bed or to play practical jokes on your wedding night. Not a good time to be funny. Romance is the rule of the night.

It’s often easy to spot a couple who definitely will not be making love on there wedding night. Most likely it has to do with a little too much social lubrication. Ease up on how many drinks you consume. Lay off the shots. Your wedding night should be memorable… that means you need to remember it. Alcohol affects your libido. Missing out on making love and waking up with a hangover is never a great way to begin the rest of your life together.

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“Bliss out in the tub. Prepare beforehand for a romantic bath. Think rose petals, massage oils and candles, as well as sponges or loofahs to wash each other with. Just turn the water on and enjoy.” ~ Michelle Bender

To tired for wedding night whoopee? Wait until the morning. Perhaps morning-after sex might be a better idea.

The wedding night marks the beginning of a new responsible life together and is extremely significant in the life of each of you. Your wedding night may not be the best night of your lives but it is the starting point of a life that can turn out to be a wonderful life together. Perhaps the best promise you can make to one another is to get through the day together and turn your focus on the marriage that lies ahead.

BONUS Article: 10 Sex Tips for a Magical Wedding Night
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How To Cut a Wedding Cake in 4 Easy Steps

Jill Lauren, Guest Author

It’s your Wedding Day. You’ve prepared for everything. The First Look went off without a hitch, the Ceremony was incredible, the First Dance was spectacular….now it’s time to Cut the Cake. But wait – How to cut a wedding cake?

This is usually the part of the evening when your wedding planner quickly explains what to do and then gets out of the photo. But were you really listening to her? Everyone is looking at you and your new husband and the two of you are supposed to know how to do this. But let’s get real – cutting cake with another person is only going to happen once in your life…so you really don’t have a clue.

Not to worry. I’m here to give you the 4 easy steps to cutting the cake. That’s right – only 4 simple things to remember and the two of you will seem like pro’s. When your wedding planner stops by to give you the run down, you can say “We’ve got this covered, our photographer gave us everything we need to know on how to cut a wedding cake.”

1. Decide on Forks or Fingers – If you are using forks to feed each other, then you won’t be smashing cake (or at least you shouldn’t be). If you decide to use your fingers to feed each other cake – then feel free to smash away. My one rule – be ready to lick off any smashed cake from the other persons face(Also if you’ve decided on forks – then make sure there are 2 available before you get started)

2. The Cutting Utensils – in front of you is usually a long knife and a spatula-type thing. The knife is used first – the spatula second. The brides hand grabs the knife first, the groom places his hand over the brides. You will make two cuts – a Triangle. Don’t worry about making it too big. But be sure to cut all the way through all cake layers with both cuts.

3. Serving each other – The spatula-thing is used now (one of these days I should know what the name of that thing is) Only one of you needs to do this part – you already cut the cake together, now one person can use the spatula to scoop the cake onto a plate (If the bride is doing the scooping, then the groom should be holding the plate). It’s easier to decide beforehand who will be doing what.

4. Feeding each other – This is the fun part. Remember, you already decided on Forks or Fingers. Now just have fun. You get to have your cake and eat it too!

Make sure this isn’t the only taste of cake you get – be sure to have a whole piece later on. I missed out on eating cake at my wedding and I was a little sad afterwards.

So now you know how to cut a wedding cake. You’ll be all set for your wedding day. Or you can always be available to tell your friends how they should do it. It’s always nice being the friend that knows what to do in circumstances like this.

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Copyright © 2013 – Jill Lauren. Jill Lauren is Arizona’s Premier wedding photographer. She works alongside her husband, Chris Smith, and together they create breathtaking memories for their clients. Her favorite part of her job is getting to know her clients and giving them exactly what they want. She also loves sharing the little tips and tricks she’s picked up after so many weddings and events. Jill and her husband live in Phoenix, AZ. Jill is the owner of the Wedding Events Network! Visit Jill’s Website!

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Two First Dance Wedding Songs to Consider ~ Videos

My DJ friend, Ron Ruth, from Kansas City suggested several songs to consider for your first dance. Enjoy!

One listen to “I Do” by Colbie Caillat and Brides and Grooms will be finding ways to include the song in their wedding reception. Plus, it’s got a catchy little beat that you’ll want to listen to over and over again.

Give “I Do” by Colbie Caillat a listen and tell us what you think. Is this new song a wedding winner?

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Colbie Caillat’s “I Do” Lyrics:

It’s always been about me, myself, and I
I thought relationships were nothing but a waste of time
I never wanted to be anybody’s other half
I was happy saying I had a love that wouldn’t last
That was the only way I knew ’til I met you

You make we wanna say
I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do doo
Yeah, I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do doo
Cause every time before it’s been like
Maybe yes and maybe no
I can’t live without it, I can’t let it go
Ooh what did I get myself into?
You make we wanna say I do, I do, I do, I do, I do, I do

Tell me is it only me
Do you feel the same?
You know me well enough to know that I’m not playing games
I promise I won’t turn around and I won’t let you down
You can trust I’ve never felt it like I feel it now
Baby there’s nothing, there’s nothing we can’t get through

So can we say
I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do doo
Oh baby, I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do doo
Cause every time before it’s been like
Maybe yes and maybe no
I won’t live without it, I won’t let it go
What more can I get myself into?
You make we wanna say

Me, a family, a house, a family
Ooh, can we be a family?
And when I’m eighty years old I’m sitting next to you
And we’ll remember when we said
I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do do
Oh baby, I do, I do, I do, do do do do do do do
Cause every time before it’s been like
Maybe yes and maybe no
I won’t live without it, I won’t let us go
Just look at what we got ourselves into
You make we wanna say I do, I do, I do, I do, I do, I do,
Love you

Charlie Wilson’s third solo album, “Just Charlie,” released December 3, 2010, contains a new single titled “You Are.” With it’s soulful sound and romatic lyrics, there are some that have already pegged “You Are” as a hot and fresh wedding first dance pick.

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Charlie Wilson’s “You Are” Lyrics:

Butterfly is what I feel inside
And every time it’s like my first time oo wee
And I can’t never find the words to say
You’re the perfect girl
You’re made for me
It’s so easy to love you baby
We’re compatible, incredible and natural we are
And girl I’ve never felt this way before
From the bottom of my heart
Baby girl I just wanna tell you that you are
The reason I love the reason I trust
God sent me an angel
You are the best in the world
A wonderful girl
Knowing you by my side brings tears to my eyes
Baby
Girl you had me from the moment I looked into your eyes
And I knew you were an angel but you were in disguise
Tell me how can I be so lucky
That you fall down from heaven for me
Oo baby
Some people searching life time and never find the true love oo wee
Heaven care enough for me to give me you
And now our heart can beat together
Standing strong girl here forever
You and I(you and I)
You and I (you and I)
I just want you to know
The reason I love the reason I trust
God sent me an angel
You are the best in the world
A wonderful girl
Knowing you by my side
And a man aint suppose to cry
But girl you are
The only woman I’ll make love to
The reason I come home every night
Girl you are
You’re all that I need in my life
And it almost feel
It’s not fair
Loving you?
You are (you are)
You are
You are the reason I love the reason I trust
God sent me an angel
You are the best in the world
A wonderful girl (you’re a wonderful girl)
Waoh Oh
You are
(Baby you are)you are?
(You are)You are all need
(You are)Baby heaven has sent you to me
(Baby you are)the one for me
(You are)the air that I breathe
(You are)baby you are you are (oohh yeahh)
You are, you are everyday to me baby
You are eveything oh baby
Baby you are
Baby you are…

Larry’s NOTE: A special “thank you” to Ron Ruth for calling these videos to my attention.

BONUS Article: Put on Your Dancing Shoes!
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2nd Video Copyright © 2010 – Music video by Charlie Wilson; Charlie Wilson performing You Are. 2010 JIVE Records, a unit of Sony Music Entertainment

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Ideas That Celebrate Your Individuality at Your Wedding

Alexis “Ally” Asbe, Guest Author

• There is something special about a bride who wants to wear her mother’s wedding dress.

• Sing a song for your love, do a dance, read a poem, play a guitar, or anything else.

• Have a groom’s cake that’s in the shape of your partner’s favorite animal.

• Eat hot dogs at your wedding if you like hot dogs.

• Plan a dance that the entire bridal party does when walking into the reception.

• Practice a first dance (with a twist) with your love.

• Have performers at your wedding – jugglers, fire-eaters, or some other crazy group.

• Thank about a photo booth at your wedding where guests can take pictures of themselves celebrating.

• Do the chicken dance… if you like.

• Write out the story of how you and your love met and share it with everyone (or act it out).

• Share pictures of you and your love when you were growing up. (Yes, braces and all.)

• Use antiques or items from other family weddings in your décor.

• Serve food that is of your love’s ethnic origin.

• Look for how your wedding dress can incorporate your family history – tie your bouquet with lce from one of your family’s wedding outfits.

• Ask your relatives to share stories of their weddings.

• Frame wedding or family photos of your relatives at an entry, gift or cake table.

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• Celebrate your ethnicity – maybe in your dress or your jewelry.

• Have your wedding cake or dessert made with your family’s secret ingredient (maybe you share what it is, maybe you don’t.

• Follow a family tradition that rings true for you.

• Let your guests know that how the details of your wedding are related to you. Celebrate their marriages.

• Remember to breathe! Trying to have everything fit in and trying to have everything be scheduled down to the second is a recipe for exhaustion and stress. Slow down and breathe.

• Keep your smile on all day.

• Revel in the “feeling” of your wedding and less about the details. Smile. Think about how people you love make you feel. And finally… tell them.

• At the end… treat the entire wedding guests to a surprise fireworks display.

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Copyright 2013 Alexis Asbe. Adapted from the book, “At the Altar in Your Underwear.” Alexis “Ally” Asbe has designed and consulted for over 3000 weddings and events. She is the bestselling author of “At the Altar in Your Underwear: 40 secrets to an amazing wedding and a better you!” She is currently a consultant, writer and speaker devoted to styling your heart, your life and soon to be your best friend… Get in your underwear with her at AllyAsbe.com.

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The Biggest Wedding Trend in 2013 is to Buck the Trend

Sheryl Davies, Guest Author

Every bride envisions her wedding day as being the stuff that dreams are made of. And this season is no different, as we find weddings steeped in beautiful details, wrapped in fabulous fabrics, sparkling gem accents and featuring stunning bouquets and centerpieces. There will be delectable and creative cakes and unique locations to round out the day.

Today, it is more important to couples than ever, to be true to who they are; rather than follow the traditions of the past. No longer do you have to be pushed into a scenario that isn’t totally you!

The biggest trend in 2013 is to buck the trend; each couple can do what makes them happy and what reflects their personalities. Most nuptials today are a reflection of the bride and groom, their lifestyle and what makes them comfortable.

Wedding gowns have definitely shifted from white and ivory to popular pink this season and the pinks are simply stunning! You can literally get married in any colour dress you choose.

It is evident in such practices as “First Look”, when the couple and their wedding party meet for a photo session, prior to the ceremony.

Alternate bridal registries and dessert bars, pizzazz lighting and cart service add to this list. Today’s gorgeous bridal fashion, over – the- top decorated theme receptions, delicious food, stunning photography and musical and lighting wows are all part and parcel of what makes wedding receptions the event of a lifetime for marrying couples and their guests.

Bridal fashions have come a long way and are bedazzling with gowns in many colour palettes from red to black, blush pink, vibrant blue to mint green. This year, sleeves are in, lace, chiffon, satin and silk are favourite fabrics. A huge trend in gowns has them encrusted with beautiful trim that catches the light with a high shine and a lot of bling.

For the first time, the details in the back neckline of the gown are stunning. The biggest trend this year is the bridal gown. As predicted last season, Bridesmaid gowns continue to be different colours, and styles, which make them flattering to wear again, after the wedding is over. The new Pantone colours for 2013 highlight the dusk and inky blues, poppy red, shades of greens in jade, emerald and lime tones and a carry forward from last season, palettes in the orange and purple family with Nectarine and African violet. Neutrals like white and cream continue to be strong with gray as a contender, too.

Headwear continues to look big for next season’s brides; lace caps, birdcage fascinators, veils (short and long), and flowers in the hair. Hats and gloves are also on the horizon and set to make a big comeback.

One of the most important accessories to come on the scene in the past few years has been the bridal shoe. They are adorned with jewels, bows, lace as they peek out from under her bridal gown. Bridal bouquets are real or silk and full of jeweled accents and, they can be rhinestone bling or ribbon handled as they create a classic and timeless feeling. Backdrops are becoming huge and will continue to grow in popularity.

Backgrounds behind the head table can be comprised of ribbon in multi-colors, yards of lace or garlands of flowers to add a sense of style and glamour to the reception. Always a compromise, wedding planning for this upcoming season offers so much choice that it will be easier to find exactly what the bride is looking for. Nostalgia continues with vintage, rustic and retro themes that are beautiful and full of elegance.

After hours and hours of planning, a couple needs to remember to enjoy their day with their eyes fixed on their future life. Their individual wedding style will be the foundation of the life they build together.

Larry’s NOTE: Different is good! I’m finding that many brides and grooms are tossing traditional protocol in favor of elements that display their own individualities.

BONUS Article: Wedding Inspiration 2013

Copyright © 2013 – Sheryl Davies. Sheryl Davies is a long-time wedding industry veteran who has seen the changes but also knows why they came about. She has published “The Wedding Guide Windsor|Essex County” since 1990. She hosts radio shows for her clients on http://www.am800cklw.com. Visit Sheryl’s Blog and Facebook page and http://www.Facebook.com/sheryldavies.

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Stats Show the Average Cost of a Wedding in 2012

Are wedding costs declining?

There are many who think so. However, The Knot’s founders say, “No!” Brides are pressing on with having the wedding of their dreams. Here are the average costs of what the approximately 17,500 brides in the survey spent on their weddings in 2012.

There’s more. Survey finds that wedding budgets continue to rise, brides are focusing on guests; plus first-ever same-sex wedding statistics! Click here!

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How to Make Money Talks Less Awkward

Aly Walansky, Guest Author

You can talk to your significant other about what they love, what they hate, where they want to travel and what they want to accomplish. But talking about the root of all those things – money – can be difficult. Financial experts say money and money problems are the leading cause of divorce which means communication is key. Make those money talks less awkward with these tips.

Plan for It

Having a conversation about money isn’t something you want to spring on someone. Instead of bringing it up in the heat of the moment or just before bed, plan your chat ahead of time. Tell your partner you want to go over your finances next Tuesday or Saturday afternoon. Write it down on your calendar in ink. That way you can both be prepared and focused.

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Larry’s NOTE: Don’t be blindsided by your partner’s debt. If you or your partner are knee deep in credit card debt, you need to talk about it “before” you tie the knot. Waiting until after marriage and then finding out that your partner has $45,000 in credit card debt could be the straw that broke the camel’s back. You must learn to discuss your money as often and thoroughly as necessary and the earlier in your relationship, the better. Financial counseling can help couples with different styles meet somewhere in the middle. Please be honest about money!

BONUS Articles: “100 Ways to Cut Wedding Costs“
“Splitting the Wedding Costs“
“Get Out of Debt with the Debt Snowball Plan” by Dave Ramsey, author of “The Total Money Makeover: A Proven Plan for Financial Fitness“

Copyright © 2013 – Aly Walansky. Aly is the beauty and fashion editor for MyGloss.com, a style columnist for SheKnows.com as well as a contributor to publications ranging from Huffington Post to About.com. While she is well-known for her beauty and style writing — New Beauty Magazine rated her one of the top four beauty bloggers on the web in their Winter 2010 issue and Star Magazine rated her the hottest blogger on the Internet this summer – she’s rather diversified in the blogosphere – she’s been hired to live-blog from locations ranging from the Miss America pageant to the Emmy Awards. Diversified, sure, but her true passion exists in the worlds of beauty and style, and she is quoted in countless publications on a weekly basis, and has appeared as a beauty expert on the FOX network and various radio programming. Aly currently resides in New York City, where she focuses on the travel, beauty/spa, and fashion writing realm. Visit Aly’s BLOG.

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Order Up a Positive Choice

Alexis Asbe, Guest Author

Whether you are fixing to marry the person of your dreams or simply trying to get through your day, there are inevitably times (often moment-to-moment) when you need to make a choice. Does that sound like a cliché? Well, simple, powerful truths often come disguised that way.

Unlike the complexity of wedding planning, making a choice is very simple and uncomplicated.

Choosing is like ordering a “Meal Deal.” For example, Meal Deal #1 is choosing to be positive, and Meal Deal #2 is choosing NOT to (which can put you anywhere between numb and negative). The benefits of Meal Deal #1 are endless. The side effects of Meal Deal #2 can be harmful to your health.

Here are just some of the benefits when you choose the “positively” delicious (sorry, couldn’t resist the pun) Meal Deal #1:

Adding a Side of Optimism

So what’s not to be happy about? You only have an average of 160 things to do when planning a wedding… and how many hours are there in a day… and how many days until the big one?

The feeling of “overload” and its buddy “emotional stress” WILL sneak up on you. Don’t be surprised. Count on it! And when these guys show up, be ready to flip them off with a good dose of positiveness. (Yes, it’s a word… I just made it up!)

Now, don’t get me wrong. You don’t have to walk around with a big cheesy smile on your face to be an optimist. Optimism is simply a choice to see something differently than what may seem obvious. Instead of dwelling on the tiny details, you can choose to look at the bigger picture, which may give you a better view of what is possible. After all, you are in love, and ordering up a side of optimism will only enhance the view.

Sprinkle Laughter on Top

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Planning a wedding is associated with over-the-top stress. In addition to your already busy life, you now have an unbelievable “To-Do” list, a looming deadline, and a limited budget. Finding humor while attacking your daily “To-Do” list, and actually laughing, are two of the best remedies for defusing stress. Not only will laughter ease the tension (yours and that of those around you), its healthy side effects will help support your body’s immune and circulatory systems… and the endorphins that a little chuckle releases into your body can’t help but improve your overall happiness. So, sprinkle a little laughter on your “To-Do” list and call me in the morning.

Building the Optimist Muscle

The practice of being positive is like building a muscle (hey, stay with me, those of you who hate exercise). It takes time, repetition, and requires a consistent supply of protein. While you are out and about tackling that “To-Do” list, try to stop at least 3 to 5 times in the day to check in with yourself. This is a great source of “protein.” Be aware of your self-talk. Are you on autopilot, with your wings tilting towards overwhelm or negativity? Are you looking for (drum roll…next pithy cliché…) the silver lining in every situation, or have you slid into having less than wonderful, be your expectation?

Sometimes, when we are rushing around, focused on accomplishment, we don’t see all the magnificence right in front of us. If you stop, take some deep breaths, look around and acknowledge each simple joy and accomplishment (yes, each and every one), you will be a muscle-bound optimist before you know it!

Two Scoops of Gratitude to Go, Please

Being thankful is like two giant scoops of ice cream. Everyone likes it. It tastes soooo good! It’s easy to swallow, and goes well with everything. While planning for your big day, remember that without a grateful heart, the “bigness” of the day will be diminished. After all, gratitude turns rejection into approval, confusion into direction, and misperception into transparency. When we are transparent we are vulnerable. When we are vulnerable we can devour all the richness of being in love… And that, my friend, is what will sustain you and your chosen one through the rest of your lives together.

Bon Appétit!

Peace, love and hungry… Ally

Larry’s Book Review: “At the Alter in Your Underwear” is a fun book to read. You’ll find some of the best and most practical advice I’ve ever read about weddings. Get a good chuckle from Chapter 8! Ally Asbe’s words will assist brides in having less stress and fewer anxieties about the big day. Best read with a yellow highlighter!”

Copyright 2013 Alexis Asbe. Alexis “Ally” Asbe has designed and consulted for over 3000 weddings and events. She is the bestselling author of “At the Altar in Your Underwear: 40 secrets to an amazing wedding and a better you!” She is currently a consultant, writer and speaker devoted to styling your heart, your life and soon to be your best friend… Get in your underwear with her at AllyAsbe.com.

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